Very Worried for scan

Discussion in 'Pregnancy - First Trimester' started by AEM1803, Nov 14, 2011.

  1. AEM1803

    AEM1803 Well-Known Member

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    My 10 week scan is next week..
    but as the time slowly approaches.. i have more and more anxiety about it..
    I am scared I am going to go there and they are not going to see anything or that something is going to be wrong :cry:
    I dont "feel" pregnant.. i dont know how im supposed to feel... :shrug:
    My breasts are sore and im bloated and tired.. and thats it.. i dont have butterflies or have that "pregnancy feeling" like people say im supposed to have and that is having me worry even more :cry:

    Im just so confused and unsure of how i am supposed to be feeling :dohh:
     
  2. chell5544

    chell5544 mum of 2

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    i felt exactly like you in my 1st pregancy and for some reason even more so in this.
    In my 1st pg i didn have a single symptom what so ever and went on to have a perfectly healthy baby girl.
    just try not to worry about it im sure everythng will be ok
     
  3. shescrafty

    shescrafty Well-Known Member

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    I have my first scan the day after tomorrow, and I am also really really nervous. I have no real reason to be except maybe reading too much, and googling everything :( I guess its natural to feel anxious, it's our own defense mechanism to prepare ourselves for anything. But let's try and think positively for ourselves and for our little ones :hugs: Let us know how it goes!
     
  4. Dinah93

    Dinah93 Happy mum to two preemies

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    Remember reading all the sad posts on here from the ladies who have had to deal with loss is the exception not the rule - but all the ladies whose pregnancy is going just fine don't need to start threads. Yes around 1/4 pregnancies end in miscarriage, but most of these are obvious not missed miscarriages, there is only around a 2% chance to have one of those. You've listed a pretty heafty list of pregnancy symptoms you do have, I've never heard of getting butterflies, there is no reason to fear the worst.
     

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