Waiting for AF after M/C, anyone else? OCBM

[Nina83]

bluestars, I NEVER got a positive with dip strips. I think that wasted a good few months of us TTC. Never got the day right. I started using CB digital and finally got it right after 3 months.
It sound like you're going to O soon!!!

 

[Lindsay109]

Ugh, don't get me started...
The girl in the office next to mine is 16 weeks. I should be about 21 weeks now
She got knocked up on her honeymoon, when I bet lots of drinking went on. Plus flying. And not planned. Life is most definitely not fair. I hear her make all her appointments and talk about it. I just close my door and cry. She walks past my door every other minute to get stuff from the copier.
The other day I heard her say how she got nervous when she wasn't nauseous one day. That just got the worst of me, I couldn't handle it.It's not fair we actually know the worst could happen feels like.
It doesn't help I couldn't stand her to begin with. She drags her feet and eats LOUD. Chomp chomp chomp... I close my door whenever she eats as well.
I haven't said congrats yet. I might never.

Well, I'm glad it's not just me... you're right, life is just not fair. I'm sorry you have to deal with your coworker on a daily basis. The girl I work with is really nice... I think it's just the fact that her timelines are so close to what mine would have been that I'm finding it really hard. And of course, she has no idea of what happened, so has no reason to expect that her little comments might upset me. I don't really want to tell anyone at work either, so I'm just going to have to suck it up (or maybe slap or kick myself, lol). Or maybe just work from home for the next 5 months, haha, although that's not really realistic either.

 

[Nat0609]

Quick update, I'm off to the hospital for bloods.

Still bleeding but still testing positive xx

 

[crysshae]

Good luck, Nat. I hope it turns out to be good news.

 

[bluestars]

How are you ladies dealing with other people's pregnancies? I was at my office last week and found out one of my co-workers is about 17 weeks pregnant... she is due right around when I would have been. I'm really happy and excited for her, especially because I know they have been trying for a while... but it also makes me feel so so sad. To be honest, I kind of hid from her for the rest of the day so I didn't have to say anything, because I didn't think I would be able to say anything without tears and no one at work knows what happened. The good thing is I usually work in the community so I don't have to go in to the office everyday... but I'll probably see her again sooner or later... I'm just hoping that I will be strong enough at that point to be able to congratulate her without crying.

Ugh, don't get me started...
The girl in the office next to mine is 16 weeks. I should be about 21 weeks now
She got knocked up on her honeymoon, when I bet lots of drinking went on. Plus flying. And not planned. Life is most definitely not fair. I hear her make all her appointments and talk about it. I just close my door and cry. She walks past my door every other minute to get stuff from the copier.
The other day I heard her say how she got nervous when she wasn't nauseous one day. That just got the worst of me, I couldn't handle it.It's not fair we actually know the worst could happen feels like.
It doesn't help I couldn't stand her to begin with. She drags her feet and eats LOUD. Chomp chomp chomp... I close my door whenever she eats as well.
I haven't said congrats yet. I might never.

I generally ignore the fact that they are pregnant when talks ng to them. To be fair they do the same with me ! Unfortunately I can't avoid them.

I don't think you'll have O'd yet, you might O a day or so earlier than you thought though.

I'm wondering about temping but don't think I want the hassle. Like do you have to do it very single day lol? Can't you just do it Monday to Friday

I think its supposed to be daily. I do it daily between 8am and 9am. This is my first proper month trying it.

Also good luck at hosp I will be thinking of you. Xxxx

bluestars, I NEVER got a positive with dip strips. I think that wasted a good few months of us TTC. Never got the day right. I started using CB digital and finally got it right after 3 months.
It sound like you're going to O soon!!!

Fingers crossed I do! Will give me a bit of reassurance! How are you getting on? Xxx

Quick update, I'm off to the hospital for bloods.

Still bleeding but still testing positive xx

 

[Nina83]

Good luck Nat, hope to hear good news!

 

[Nina83]

As the days pass these stupid cramps are turning more and more into constipation cramps. Plus I'm bloated like hell.
I did have BM the past days, I guess just not enough. Strange because I've been drinking like crazy.
I'll be hitting the gym tonight, hope that helps.
My cervix is all over the place, yesterday medium soft, last night high and firm, today low and medium. Who the hell knows anymore I just want A to come.

 

[bluestars]

I wouldnt know how to test my cervix for any signs and changes ! Maybe gym will help you release tension too might help ! Xxx

 

[Aleeah]

Quick update, I'm off to the hospital for bloods.

Still bleeding but still testing positive xx

Good Luck Nat, hope everything's ok, thinking of you xx

 

[Nat0609]

Thanks ladies. Been to the hospital, had the bloods done. Doc will get results this pm or tomorrow morning. If it comes back positive for pregnancy, they'll repeat in 48 hours and compare.

So now we wait......

How is everyone else doing? Anything to report? Xx

 

[Lindsay109]

Thanks ladies. Been to the hospital, had the bloods done. Doc will get results this pm or tomorrow morning. If it comes back positive for pregnancy, they'll repeat in 48 hours and compare.

So now we wait......

How is everyone else doing? Anything to report? Xx

Hope you get good news Nat. At least one way or another it will provide clarity. Thinking of you.

 

[Lindsay109]

As the days pass these stupid cramps are turning more and more into constipation cramps. Plus I'm bloated like hell.
I did have BM the past days, I guess just not enough. Strange because I've been drinking like crazy.
I'll be hitting the gym tonight, hope that helps.
My cervix is all over the place, yesterday medium soft, last night high and firm, today low and medium. Who the hell knows anymore I just want A to come.

The gym is good therapy, hope you feel better Hopefully you won't be stuck in limbo land for much longer.

 

[Nat0609]

Thanks ladies. Been to the hospital, had the bloods done. Doc will get results this pm or tomorrow morning. If it comes back positive for pregnancy, they'll repeat in 48 hours and compare.

So now we wait......

How is everyone else doing? Anything to report? Xx

Hope you get good news Nat. At least one way or another it will provide clarity. Thinking of you.

Thanks huni.

I've got a good bunch of girlies here.

The good news is the bleeding has slowed, for now at least... Xx

 

[crysshae]

Thanks ladies. Been to the hospital, had the bloods done. Doc will get results this pm or tomorrow morning. If it comes back positive for pregnancy, they'll repeat in 48 hours and compare.

So now we wait......

How is everyone else doing? Anything to report? Xx

Not a thing. Getting to the point of starving all day like I usually do in my luteal phase. Drives me crazy.

 

[Aleeah]

Thanks ladies. Been to the hospital, had the bloods done. Doc will get results this pm or tomorrow morning. If it comes back positive for pregnancy, they'll repeat in 48 hours and compare.

So now we wait......

How is everyone else doing? Anything to report? Xx

Hope you get good news Nat. At least one way or another it will provide clarity. Thinking of you.

Thanks huni.

I've got a good bunch of girlies here.

The good news is the bleeding has slowed, for now at least... Xx

So glad you're at least getting checked out, try and take it easy (I know that can't be easy with 2 little 'uns to look after) but try and rest up a bit, I've heard that can slow bleeding too. Still got my fingers and toes crossed for you xx

I haven't had any cramping or anything today. This may sound weird but straight after the m/c my boobs started shrinking, but they shrank loads, to the point my skin was wrinkly!! The last week or so they're growing, quite a bit. I would be on rooftops celebrating a BFP had I not noticed this during ovulation, so wondering if the hormones released during ovulation have this effect? They don't feel anywhere near full or hard like they were with my last BFP so not expecting to fall until next cycle at earliest.

xx

 

[bluestars]

Boobs swelling is one of natures natural ways to show the male species when mating time is. Its supposed to attract them... or so ive read/been told! Xxx

 

[Aleeah]

Boobs swelling is one of natures natural ways to show the male species when mating time is. Its supposed to attract them... or so ive read/been told! Xxx

Well it's definitely attracted my husband!! He mentions it to me everytime he see's me and we do live together!! And on a positive he's definitely up for baby dancing more, hhhmmmm maybe I should get a boob job done just to get even more baby dancing in...?!

xx

 

[bluestars]

Hahaha!! They are predicable haha! My OH is the same! Likes to measure them with his hand to "see if they really have grown" ! Haha I see cave man syndrome haha! Xxx

 

[bluestars]

I don't know if any of you use OPK's? I have been trying this and temping and yesterday I got a smiley on a cbfm and went to try again today but that wee smiley face is still having about. (Stays for two days , which is annoying!) so I looked out one of my cheapies that I have never had a pos from and got this !!

 

[Aleeah]

I don't know if any of you use OPK's? I have been trying this and temping and yesterday I got a smiley on a cbfm and went to try again today but that wee smiley face is still having about. (Stays for two days , which is annoying!) so I looked out one of my cheapies that I have never had a pos from and got this !!

Well that's a definite positive OPK! I don't have a cbfm, so not sure when that would change but that's a definite positive OPK, I use the same type. I got mine for 2 days in a row with that sort this month if that helps?

xx