Waiting for our BFPs! Please hurry :-D

[cathgibbs]

Oh Mrsb try to think positive hun I KNOW how hard it is though but I know of 3 friends that have had spotting around the 7 week mark and they have been fine hun, what time is your scan on Wednesday?? I have everything x for you lovely!!!

Hilslo im sooo happy your feeling great hun! Its nice to hear! How was your holiday?? Did you dtd lots!?! Do you think though becaue you were away and you were really happy and relaxed etc that you werent paying too much attention to your body (ov pains)?? Do you know what I mean??

Well I have a meeting with HR at 12.30 to discuss my options, they havent mentioned redundancy and I just wrote the times of the transport I would need to take and its not 4 hours travelling....its actually 5 hours!! Iv spoke to ACAS aswell their kinda like an advice line and they said im def entitled to it and if they dont offer it i got a good case for tribunal but my company are pretty good so heres hoping! im trying not to get all my hopes up for this job in January aswell as anything can happen so still looking around! xxx

 

[hilslo]

Oh mrsB I hope it's just the bean nestling in or a cyst but I know how scary that feeling is. I had pink/peachy with my mmc and did lots of research and generally found that red/brown spotting often turned out okay.
I know it is impossible to relax but try to throw yourself into work or anything that can take your mind off it at least for a few minutes.
I really do have everything crossed that things will ok. They have to be - you're are shining example.
Huge hugs and masses of love hon.

 

[MrsBroodyPant]

Thanks ladies.
My scan is wed 3.30pm.

Im here to support u all too. Xxx

 

[hilslo]

Oh Mrsb try to think positive hun I KNOW how hard it is though but I know of 3 friends that have had spotting around the 7 week mark and they have been fine hun, what time is your scan on Wednesday?? I have everything x for you lovely!!!

Hilslo im sooo happy your feeling great hun! Its nice to hear! How was your holiday?? Did you dtd lots!?! Do you think though becaue you were away and you were really happy and relaxed etc that you werent paying too much attention to your body (ov pains)?? Do you know what I mean??

Well I have a meeting with HR at 12.30 to discuss my options, they havent mentioned redundancy and I just wrote the times of the transport I would need to take and its not 4 hours travelling....its actually 5 hours!! Iv spoke to ACAS aswell their kinda like an advice line and they said im def entitled to it and if they dont offer it i got a good case for tribunal but my company are pretty good so heres hoping! im trying not to get all my hopes up for this job in January aswell as anything can happen so still looking around! xxx

I think it might be. I o'd early when I was on holiday over Christmas last year (cd19) and late in jan (cd28) when I was super stressed with year end financial reporting. I did end up pregnant after that super stressful cycle though lol so goes to show you can never rely on anything whilst ttc!!

 

[hilslo]

Thanks ladies.
My scan is wed 3.30pm.

Im here to support u all too. Xxx

We'll all be there with you in spirit chick. Looking forward to hearing that it was all a worry over nothing and that you hear a lovely strong heartbeat. How many weeks/days are you now?

 

[cathgibbs]

Im glad you have the scan booked Mrsb - I really hope its nothing Are you having any pain or anything? Have you and hubby had sex recently??

I think That must be the case hun! Once your mind is off ttc your not so intune with your body? be lush if you got your bfp after such a relaxing time! xxx

 

[MrsBroodyPant]

Ive not had any pain. Just spotting twice. We haven't had sex for a while. I will update u soon.

Good luck ladies im rooting for u all xxx

 

[Nina83]

Mrsb ((hugs)), as the girls have said before- spotting does happen and I'm sure it's nothing! Good thing your scan is Wednesday, I'm sure you'll be seeing a wiggly little bean in there!


Hilslo- Stupid site...

https://www.gracielegacy.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/11/fist-pump-baby1-300x197.jpg

It's happened to the best of us!

I think everything you said is just a good sign! No signs are good signs. I agree with Cath, maybe because you were relaxing you didn't notice. We really need to stop comparing our previous cycles It's so hard though.

What dpo are you guys on? I think I'm right behind you. BFP for everyone!


Cath, Oh my goodness, 5 hours?! Will it be on train at least?

 

[Nina83]

And I just need to vent (this happened on another forum, not BNB)
I am so incredibly TIRED AND FED UP with women who complain that they got pregnant on their first try, and now they're on their 3rd cycle- and "what is wrong with me?"
Dude, we've been trying for 8 months the first time, I got lucky the second, and now we're on our 5th month.
Say thank God you know you can get pregnant and KEEP it. You might have just gotten lucky the first time.
If how it went around the first time is what counts, well, crap on me.
But that's not the way the cookie crumbles. UGH!!!!! You don't know how lucky you are. I want to say all sorts of bad words, but, well, can't.
And the worst thing, I just have to sit there and keep it shut. Nope, not allowed to say anything.

 

[HappilyTTC]

Mrs B: I hope your scan goes well. Stay thinking positive- it's all we have!

Hilslo: Glad you are feeling so great! Fingers crossed that lots of DTD happened just when it needed to.

Cath: Good news about the job starting in January! Hope your meeting with HR goes well and that there are some good options.

Nina: Your time will come! Hopefully soon! It's okay to get depressed every now and then because you are processing the absurdity of our stupid bodies not doing what they are supposed to do. As for the girls who complain about it taking longer the second and third try, I completely agree! My husband and I tried for over a year and had a miscarriage and a blighted ovum. Nothing seems to stick with me- they should be happy they were able to have a pregnancy last.

*But I guess when we are going through our own situation, it always seems like it is the worst in the world and we are the only one who has ever been in our exact shoes.

Hope everyone is doing well! Surgery is Thursday. Going to pay for it today. I am getting nervous. My friends had a little party for me on Saturday night to show their support for me. It was a nice time.

 

[Nina83]

Happily, You guys had a tough year ((hugs))
They say the first year of marriage is the hardest- next year has got to be better

 

[HappilyTTC]

Happily, You guys had a tough year ((hugs))
They say the first year of marriage is the hardest- next year has got to be better

No kidding, Nina! I hadn't thought of that- all of this in the first year of marriage! If we made it through this, we can make it through almost anything, huh?

 

[Nina83]

Happily, You guys had a tough year ((hugs))
They say the first year of marriage is the hardest- next year has got to be better

No kidding, Nina! I hadn't thought of that- all of this in the first year of marriage! If we made it through this, we can make it through almost anything, huh?

Definitely! The worst will be behind you.
I'm so sorry for what you're going through

 

[Nina83]

ugh, so frustrating.
Last nights temps were high, so I expected high temps this morning.
But I woke up earlier because I was FREEZING. DH had the blanket tucked under his feet so I couldn't pull it up. I tossed and turned and froze for about half an hour until I actually woke up. Temps were lower
I added a fake temp tomorrow and the day after, and no crosshairs, only on Friday. And I'd have todays below the crosshairs. I'm tempted to delete todays temp.
This just gives me a bad feeling about this cycle, iykwim
I still have this pressure on my sides.
I'm tired of feeling so down.

 

[HappilyTTC]

, Nina. I'm sorry you feel so down. I would get rid of today's temp since the situation last night wasn't a "normal" one. I hope your little one is on its way to you.

 

[trehan2013]

hey ladies im new to the site and was wondering if i could get some input on my chart. We've been ttc for over 2 yrs. I have 2 from a previous marriage but this would be #1 for my hubs.
now the question... how do i go about getting my chart from ff to show? sorry im horrible with computers....

 

[ladyluck84]

Ladies! Help! So temp usually drops for 2 days then af arrives but on Sunday dark spotting started which surprised me as temp was at its highest and was high Monday well af is now light and still dark brown no red blood at all that's for 3 days and has never happened before. Any suggestions as to what it could be?

 

[MrsBroodyPant]

Nina id just forget todays temp. I hope it is up tomorrow hun.

LL84 how many dpo are u? Have u tested? X

 

[trehan2013]

so im currently 18 dpo and maintaining elevated temps. ive taken several tests and the only lines that show up are about an hour after. theyre super light but there. even dh sees them. my question is what are the chances that they are evap lines or bfp's? thoughts? no sign of af coming, but i have had some slight nausea and achey breasts... they dont hurt to touch just generally achey. along with them being significantly bigger.

 

[HappilyTTC]

LL: Maybe the temp was a fluke and this is AF? OR maybe you should take a test? I know that when I had "AF" with dark brown blood, it wasn't AF. I hadn't ovulated that month; it was just my body responding to hormone surges/ declines creating a "false period" of sorts.

Could the brown be a couple of days of implantation? Is it constant or just randomly coming out?