I'm 12 weeks right now, and convinved that this little one is a boy. I know that I should be happy to have a healthy little baby either way (especially after two losses), but all I can think is that I want a girl. The whole time I've felt like it's a boy, even calling it "he" and "him" and "our son". I just feel like it's a boy, all of the "predictor tests" and old wives tales say it's a boy (Chinese calendar, Mayan calendar, skull theory, nub theory, even the wedding ring one). I know it sounds silly since I don't believe in that stuff, but I even did one of those psychic online predictions done (I did it for the conception months since it was really cheap and seemed fun; she was right about the conception month and also said it would be a boy). The only thing that could point to a girl would be the heartbeat (which was 157 and 155 bpm at my ultrasound and appointment this week), but of course none of those methods are foolproof in any way.
I just can't help but worry that I'll be disappointed when I find out that it's a boy at my anatomy scan. I've always wanted girls, but always imagined only having one child. Once we had our daughter and decided we wanted another, I figured I wouldn't mind if it's a boy since I already have a girl, but now that I'm pregnant, I really just want a second girl. My SIL had two little girls, and I'm also afraid I'll be jealous of her for having two girls. Also, my cousin is having a surprise baby who's their third (of 3 kids) girl who's due a couple months before, so I don't want to feel jealous of her either.
Ugh, I'm just a mess of emotion about it, and I feel guilty for feeling this way. And I'm worried I won't adjust to it once we know for sure.
I just can't help but worry that I'll be disappointed when I find out that it's a boy at my anatomy scan. I've always wanted girls, but always imagined only having one child. Once we had our daughter and decided we wanted another, I figured I wouldn't mind if it's a boy since I already have a girl, but now that I'm pregnant, I really just want a second girl. My SIL had two little girls, and I'm also afraid I'll be jealous of her for having two girls. Also, my cousin is having a surprise baby who's their third (of 3 kids) girl who's due a couple months before, so I don't want to feel jealous of her either.
Ugh, I'm just a mess of emotion about it, and I feel guilty for feeling this way. And I'm worried I won't adjust to it once we know for sure.