Hi sweetie! Well, your first step is to try without protection and see if you are successful. If it has been some time or you are just anxious, I would move on to the ovulation predictor kits. You can buy them in the condom/pregnancy section at your local drugstore or walmart/target. Basically, you just follow the directions and pee on it according to your cycle date. Rule of thumb is that you try on your own for a year or 6 months if 35 & over, and if no luck, see a doctor for assistance. Hope this helps!