I was in the process of losing to get help conceiving. I had lost 5 stone by the time I got pregnant naturally. I was hoping to lose at least another stone but nature wasn't in on the plan! I find the worst thing for me is the attitude I get from drs and midwives, all they see is a high BMI and judge me on that, they constantly lecture me on the importance of being healthy, eating the right foods etc I've even been put in automatically for a healthy lifestyle class all despite changing the way I look at food and exercise for over a year before I got pregnant. When actually I have been taking better care of myself than those I no with normal BMIs who don't get any lecture at all! I have struggled at points to accept the numbers on the scales increase when I was getting used to seeing my weight go down! I just keep reminding myself that I have done it once, and will be able to lose it again after baby is born is its necessary. Looking forward to eating healthier to!