My boyfriend finally proposed last night (we have been together 7 years, lol) and I'm thinking about the bridal party ... yes, already! I'm going to have my best friend and sister as my bridesmaids. I need to represent my partners family in the bridal party too, but can't decide how to do it. My partners sister would be the obvious choice but I am thinking I might want her two children instead. The kids are 12 and 8. My daughter (2 just now) is going to be my flower girl. Should I have his sister as a bridesmaid and leave out the two girls, or should I give the girls roles? I thought of mini bridesmaids for both, or making the 12 year old a proper bridesmaid and the younger one to help our daughter being a flower girl, but I feel 8 is a bit old for that. Help me!