hayz_baby
Mummy to 3 boys!
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Our wedding is 6 months away so we are gearing up to sending invitations. Our wedding is small about 30-35 guests due to budget which enivitabley means some people don't have day invitations. Mainly family we don't see very often but they would still love to come. As you can imagine we are about to enter a minefield.
At the end of last year my oh fell out with one of his close friends. Called r. There's a lot of back story and tbh hasn't been that good a friend in a long time. Oh has a very small circle of friends, his best mate being r's brother w. Also best man. Now w asked oh after a couple of months to try and sort as he didn't want to be stuck in the middle and r is extremely stubborn. So oh did, we went round not long after their lo was born. Thinking everything had been sorted I gave them a save the date. Since then we have barely heard from him, a few days after we went round oh sent him a text asking how everything is going. A reply of yeah great. That's it. Still nothing. He hasn't said anything more to us. A few weeks ago we bumped into them, he said alrite? And spent the rest of the time looking at his phone. It's intentional he isn't interested.
I have since questioned if we should invite him his partner (who I have got on well with in the past but not heard much) and baby to our wedding. And tbh, I don't want him there. Why should we invite someone who is not interested at all to our small wedding with a tight budget and people who want to come we can't stretch. But I have them a save the date.
Oh doesn't want him there. Any advice?
Our wedding is 6 months away so we are gearing up to sending invitations. Our wedding is small about 30-35 guests due to budget which enivitabley means some people don't have day invitations. Mainly family we don't see very often but they would still love to come. As you can imagine we are about to enter a minefield.
At the end of last year my oh fell out with one of his close friends. Called r. There's a lot of back story and tbh hasn't been that good a friend in a long time. Oh has a very small circle of friends, his best mate being r's brother w. Also best man. Now w asked oh after a couple of months to try and sort as he didn't want to be stuck in the middle and r is extremely stubborn. So oh did, we went round not long after their lo was born. Thinking everything had been sorted I gave them a save the date. Since then we have barely heard from him, a few days after we went round oh sent him a text asking how everything is going. A reply of yeah great. That's it. Still nothing. He hasn't said anything more to us. A few weeks ago we bumped into them, he said alrite? And spent the rest of the time looking at his phone. It's intentional he isn't interested.
I have since questioned if we should invite him his partner (who I have got on well with in the past but not heard much) and baby to our wedding. And tbh, I don't want him there. Why should we invite someone who is not interested at all to our small wedding with a tight budget and people who want to come we can't stretch. But I have them a save the date.
Oh doesn't want him there. Any advice?