when I had my 1st- I was only 8st pre pregnancy and he was 9lb 1oz- don't worry about the birth being as bad, it won't be- you gave birth to a big baby once, you can do it again but far easier this time. Well it was with my 2nd anyway. XxI lost my weight so quick with my first, but I'm so scared this time because my daughter was big and I'm small my labour was horrendous. They'll monitor with growth scans towards the end but I can tell I'm already bigger! I know some women love their pregnant bodies and bumps and they are beautiful there's no doubt about that, but I don't think I'm one of them 😂 I was exactly the same last time too!