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sweetlullaby
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Massive massive massive massive massive massive massive massive massive 
hun.
Access wise because you's were together as a couple (married or not) im not too sure hun xxx
hun.Access wise because you's were together as a couple (married or not) im not too sure hun
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sending lots of hugs for you and your lil princess
im not sure about access hun. but after what hes done you might have grounds to fight him on it even though u lived together, etc
im not sure about access hun. but after what hes done you might have grounds to fight him on it even though u lived together, etc
big big hugs hun!!
take time out first before you try and sort all this access out. im not sure what happened between you 2 but if you can come to an amicable agreement (if thats possible and what is best for baby) then try as hard as you can.
take time out first before you try and sort all this access out. im not sure what happened between you 2 but if you can come to an amicable agreement (if thats possible and what is best for baby) then try as hard as you can.
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Oh hun! I'm here and there at the moment cos I am trying to make a go of things with OH! I'm sorry to hear this. I know from the last time you thought people could change. I do hope it hasnt destroyed your faith that some people can change. I cant imagine how you feel. Like your world has just fallen from under you I guess!!
He doesnt deserve you or Alex. He is Alex's dad so he can have visitation to her but your her main carer. If your worried about things like that go and see a solicitor! I hope you get everything sorted.. Its hard to not be upset, angry, hurt! But it will soon pass! xx
He doesnt deserve you or Alex. He is Alex's dad so he can have visitation to her but your her main carer. If your worried about things like that go and see a solicitor! I hope you get everything sorted.. Its hard to not be upset, angry, hurt! But it will soon pass! xx
Aidedhoney
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huge hugs hun xxxx
Alex's FOB and i lived together at the moment he sees Alex once every 2wks. He has no overnight access nor has he had Alex away from me!
I took legal advice and i was told that because mt Alex has an underlying health condition i dont have to give overnight!
Also access is something that they like to build up gradually over time!
Once again big hugs xxxx
Alex's FOB and i lived together at the moment he sees Alex once every 2wks. He has no overnight access nor has he had Alex away from me!
I took legal advice and i was told that because mt Alex has an underlying health condition i dont have to give overnight!
Also access is something that they like to build up gradually over time!
Once again big hugs xxxx
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KaeRit21
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hey mrs...im so so sorry to fins you in here
i only know this because it what im going through at moment...but
SCOTTISH law states (im saying that because i know that laws are different on other side of the border) that if you and FOB were NOT married at time of alex and/or hes not on birth cert, he has no parental rights and responsibilties. YOU DO. he only hhas rights if hes named as father...
IF he decides to take you for contact (an access order and parental rights and responsibilties are two SEPERATE court issues) then it fall down to this.
1. what bond does alex have fob?
2. what ahs he done for alex since shes been BORN
3. is it detrimental to her to have this bond.
if he can prove that its alexs best interests to see him and you dont want this...you''d then have to use risk factors...
ie. Drugs, alcohol, abuse, neglect...etc
i hope this helps...
but if hes not on birth cert, and because you werent married...then if you stop contact hed have to take you to court to see her. if you dont want this then you can still call the shots...(esp if you dont want alex to see MIL etc)
xxx
i only know this because it what im going through at moment...but
SCOTTISH law states (im saying that because i know that laws are different on other side of the border) that if you and FOB were NOT married at time of alex and/or hes not on birth cert, he has no parental rights and responsibilties. YOU DO. he only hhas rights if hes named as father...
IF he decides to take you for contact (an access order and parental rights and responsibilties are two SEPERATE court issues) then it fall down to this.
1. what bond does alex have fob?
2. what ahs he done for alex since shes been BORN
3. is it detrimental to her to have this bond.
if he can prove that its alexs best interests to see him and you dont want this...you''d then have to use risk factors...
ie. Drugs, alcohol, abuse, neglect...etc
i hope this helps...
but if hes not on birth cert, and because you werent married...then if you stop contact hed have to take you to court to see her. if you dont want this then you can still call the shots...(esp if you dont want alex to see MIL etc)
xxx
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Sorry to hear what happened xxx
so so sry for u , hes a tosser anyways elliesmami
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i couldn't read and run hun.. xxx
