fordy
mummy of 5
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some of you may know my story,but some wont.
basically to say my sister cannot have children, and me and my partner using our own eggs decided we would help her, althought we had planned to wait til this year, we accidently got pregnant 6 weeks after our son was born, we had counselling the works but deep down it still killed me to give up our baby girl who is now 16 months old, there is no legal documents to state that my sister has legal custody/adoption of the child.
all was good, we found some information such as accusing me of bashing the baby up when she was born saying she was prem when she wasnt and whole heap of other stuff, it slowly got worse we had seeked legal advice but the lawyer didnt seem to want to help us and being in a small town there was no where else to go for advice.
i didnt tell my sister what i had founded, just so i could continue seeing the child, but now, im not allow to see her at all, my sister knew how much it hurted me to give her up it was not taken lightly and she goes and does this to us.
so in the long run i'll never help someone have a baby again. if this doesnt make sense sorry i needed to talk
basically to say my sister cannot have children, and me and my partner using our own eggs decided we would help her, althought we had planned to wait til this year, we accidently got pregnant 6 weeks after our son was born, we had counselling the works but deep down it still killed me to give up our baby girl who is now 16 months old, there is no legal documents to state that my sister has legal custody/adoption of the child.
all was good, we found some information such as accusing me of bashing the baby up when she was born saying she was prem when she wasnt and whole heap of other stuff, it slowly got worse we had seeked legal advice but the lawyer didnt seem to want to help us and being in a small town there was no where else to go for advice.
i didnt tell my sister what i had founded, just so i could continue seeing the child, but now, im not allow to see her at all, my sister knew how much it hurted me to give her up it was not taken lightly and she goes and does this to us.
so in the long run i'll never help someone have a baby again. if this doesnt make sense sorry i needed to talk