well iv decided im gonna do it!!!!!

[Charliemarina]

hi ladies well ur prob wondering what the hell im on about well.......
over the last few months i have been coming in this section of LTTTC to read some of u ladies amazing brave journels and threads, to be totally honest i never actually realised how hard some women and men find it to concieve and it kind of made me feel bad knowing that i do not have probs and totally take this for granted so.....i always wanted to be a surrogate mother for someone close to me but with the fact that i have to have c-sections for the birth and after my next child (which is my third section) it would be dangerous for me and baby and doesnt make me the prime candidate for surrogacy and real gutted, so i carried on thinking, what other way can i help people who have fertility probs then it hit me....EGG DONATION!!!
i would soooooo love to do this for someone, i have perfectly good eggs no family historys of any diseases or disoreders anything and have actually looked into the criteria about who can donate and i totally fit it , i know theres alot to go through to retrieve my eggs and i know the process may not be at all fun but i really dnt care no one should have to go through what u women do to have something that should be the most natural thing in the world and i also think it totally disgusting that u even have to pay for treatment as it should be totally funded for by governments, if tax payers money should be used for anything it should be defo IVF treatment and simular treatments, i cant change the law which i wish i could but i can hopefully change a couples life forever by donating them my eggs for a chance to be parents.
im currently TTC my third so this is definalty a thing im going to do after my last child has been born x x x
so what do u guys think and has anyone ever done this before i would like to know first hand as there only so much the web can actually tell you.
good luck you guys and hope u all get ur long awaited bfp's
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[bklove]

I think its great to give someone a gift like that.

 

[Charliemarina]

thanks hunny, today i even sent off for info on both sperm and egg donors as when i told OH he said its something he would also like to do, im real proud of him actually, strong fertility runs in his family on the mens side so he would be a perfect candidate in my eyes GO OH
so just waiting for the info, its not scary for OH as it pretty simple to give sperm samples although he will undergo a good few tests b4 they actually accept his sperm but with me it totally different and is a long process, i was also amazed as to how many egg donors there are and theres not many at all people wait years for donor eggs and normally get there eggs through egg sharing so it would be great if more women made there good quality eggs avaliable but its also understanding that its not for some women and they couldnt go through with it, its just such a shame that harvesting eggs is such a hard process from start to finish.
Cant wait for the info i know its a long way off but im real exited about the fact that one day a really deserving couple can have the gift of life x x x x