Well ladies - I'm joining all you single ladies!

[Rose_red]

omg how awful, what a dickhead to do that to you. Stay strong you WILL get through this xxx

 

[erikab922]

I'm so so sorry hun. You and your daughter deserve so much more than that.

You've got the right attitude though. Give yourself the time to cry and grieve but know that you will be better off and your daughter will grow up very proud of her strong mummy. By not standing for his behaviour you're already proving yourself to be the best role model you can to your little girl.

Huge hugs xxx

This is exactly what I was going to say.

 

[babyhopes2010]

 

[VeryHopeful]

So sorry, sweetie. What a terrible feeling... I hope you feel better

 

[mrs.amillian]

OMG

What a complete twat!!

And to try to blame you as well, thats crazy, you'd just had a baby and live miles apart, no excuse for his behaviour what-so-ever!!!

Well done for being so brave already and getting mad not moppey, be strong for you daughter, grieve what could have been and then move on to what will be, you will have a great life just you and her and she will learn by your example how women should always be treated with respect and not tolerate it in her adult life.

 

[BadassMom]

Dickhead!!! Good for you for being so strong! I agree with the other ladies and just wanted to add, try not to talk to him about anything except your LO. Men have a way of twisting everything around if you give them a chance, and it'll just make it harder on you.

 

[mrs.amillian]

Dickhead!!! Good for you for being so strong! I agree with the other ladies and just wanted to add, try not to talk to him about anything except your LO. Men have a way of twisting everything around if you give them a chance, and it'll just make it harder on you.

^^^^^ exactly this!!

 

[MummytoSummer]

What a dick to start going on about marriage and more babies now!

If he was that bothered about those things and genuinely wanted it then he'd have kept it in his trousers and had some respect for you and his daughter.

Don't let him blame you and then bribe you with the things you dreamt of having. Your daughter won't miss what she doesn't know. You'll be able to provide all she needs and as long as he still steps up to his role as her father then she'll be a happy little girl with a happy mummy!

X

 

[Kyliem87]

Thanks ladies - he's spent all day begging me to "give our family the chance it deserves, he know's he can make me happy again blah blah blah" hahahaha this was his 2nd chance. 2 weeks in to the relationship I caught him talking to about 4/5 other girls and arranging to meet one. I gave him the chance, 2 years later he's threw it ALL back in my face. I keep crying out so randomly but it upsets Abigail so I am trying SO hard to smile and keep things as normal as possible for her. I just can't believe he did it

 

[jenfirstbaby]

Thanks ladies - he's spent all day begging me to "give our family the chance it deserves, he know's he can make me happy again blah blah blah" hahahaha this was his 2nd chance. 2 weeks in to the relationship I caught him talking to about 4/5 other girls and arranging to meet one. I gave him the chance, 2 years later he's threw it ALL back in my face. I keep crying out so randomly but it upsets Abigail so I am trying SO hard to smile and keep things as normal as possible for her. I just can't believe he did it

awww hunny it will get easier. He has a cheek to say 'give our family the chance it deserves'.. clearly he didn't think a family was worth more than a shag!

I split with my OH a few weeks back., it was a total different situation but you will get through this. You've done the right thing (clearly!) and your little girl will appreciate it when she is older. She's better off with a happy mummy than one who doesnt trust her daddy! xx

 

[Quackquack99]

God what a knob! Seriously that is just such a low thing to do!
You deserve so much more but if you did give him another chance, could you trust him again? Only you can be the judge of that.

 

[amiii]

what a twat! you dont need him hun! you and your princess will have a wonderful life without him. hugs

 

[kissesandhugs]

aww hun I'm sorry to hear this Seriously, wtf was he thinking?! I don't understand men like this at ALL did he NOT think he would get caught?? UGH sickening!!

 

[staralfur]

Ugh, I'm sorry hun.

In the long run it's him that's going to be the one that's hurting, though. I don't understand how someone can not only put their relationship with their SO in jeopardy, but their relationship with their CHILD in jeopardy, for something so stupid. If he hasn't already, he'll realize what a terrible mistake he's made and have to live with that for the rest of his life. And in the meanwhile you and your daughter will go on to find better lives for yourselves.

Let yourself grieve, get someone to watch your LO for a day if you just need a really good cry, but then be strong and know that you both deserve so much better!

 

[we can't wait]

What a jerk! I am so sorry to hear that you were treated so horribly. Just focus on you and LO. You can still live up to your hopes and dreams. Hang in there, hon!

 

[bumpbear]

What a total *******.

Good for you for leaving him! You and LO deserve to be treated with respect. It'll be hard at first, but you're better off without him. x

 

[Kyliem87]

Thanks ladies

I hope I see the light soon, I know this is best as I didn't 100% trust him after the first time but I really tried and worked on it. This was done so deviously and calculated that this I won't ever forget and will never trust. I'll get there. I just need to re-organise my hopes and dreams

xxx

 

[oox_tasha_xoo]

Oh hun what an absolute TWAT, the way he arranged it all at a hotel aswell just shows what kind of man he is! You've done the right thing, im so sorry xxxx

 

[EmzLouise]

I'm so sorry, I know it doesn't seem like it but it will get better, keep your head high and enjoy your baby!

 

[biliboi2]