what a difference a day makes

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  1. Tezzy

    Tezzy Mum of 2 TTCAL

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    monday crappy monday

    been told today by one of my other colegues that my boss wants me to finish at the end of this week instead of next week because im 'sat around doing nothing' :shock:

    my boss hasnt discussed this with me but the general vibe from the rest of the staff is im ment to be outta here on friday!

    Also everytime ive tried to speak to my boss today she has ignored me and started to speak to somebody else, hasnt let me join in on any conversations about what will be happenin with certain things next year. its like... 'you're leaving so i dont need to tell you...' but not in so many words.

    im so upset.. i dont know why really. part of me wants to leave (ive already cleared my desk of all personal belongings) but the other part of me is hurt that people are talking behind my back and giving me the cold shoulder

    *sniff sniff*
    :cry: :cry: :cry:
     
  2. loop

    loop Well-Known Member

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    ohhh hun big huggs to u xxx
     
  3. Wobbles

    Wobbles BnB Co-Founder ~ Retired

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    Oh crikey!! Personally I'd be requesting a meeting with the boss & voicing what you have heard! Thats not on :(

    :hugs:
     
  4. Layla

    Layla Well-Known Member

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    i do agree with wobble to
     
  6. ablaze

    ablaze lucky mum of one of each!

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    id be straight to personnel!!! this happened 2 me at my work and 4 people got as severe telling off!!! :twisted:
     
  7. Arcanegirl

    Arcanegirl Bazinga!!

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    Definatley go see the boss, Its horrible to know people are talking about you behind your back!
     
  8. Wobbles

    Wobbles BnB Co-Founder ~ Retired

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    Esspecially from the boss!!!

    She should discuss YOUR work with YOU! An it's lovely to see they notice your ready to pop :)rofl:)
     
  9. HB

    HB Guest

    Hun, i'm sure Helen will agree with me (sure she's said she's HR!) That you need to speak to your boss, if necessary HR directly to try and get that sorted its not on!

    And don't you have to give at least 28 days notice to change the start of your maternity... sure its something like that. (its while since i was in HR but i'm pretty sure, cos otherwise they'll mess up your pay and then you'll end up owing them and you don't need that!)

    But mainly.... How rude!!!!

    Try and keep thinking of the Lazy Lagoon yesterday :hugs:
     
  10. beatlesbaby66

    beatlesbaby66 Well-Known Member

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    Honey, i would be raising this, i am a manager in my office and would get my arse well and truly booted for behaviour like that...its not on...we have maternity buddies etc to keep you up to date when off on mat leave so she defo cant do this before you hav finished either.
    go to her boss and get her told....its not on...folk like her make my blood boil, they shouldnt be managers if they cant behave properly, its a disgrace...
    :devil: .bxox
     
  11. Suz

    Suz ~ I are a Nerd ~

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    :hugs: IM WITH EVERYONE ELSE. I WOULD TALKT TO YOUR BOSS. HOPE THINGS GET BETTER FOR YOU SWEETIE. :hugs:
     
  12. Tam

    Tam Mum of 2 - PG with No.3

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    :hugs: :hugs: Go get it sorted, bloody cheek.....:hugs:
     
  13. Tezzy

    Tezzy Mum of 2 TTCAL

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    thankyou all so much for all your replys... got me all choked up again :cry:

    will be having a word with my boss tomorrow... just dnt understand how people can be so mean!

    i really dont see myself coming back to work here in april... oh well on to bigger and better things ;)
     
  14. Tezzy

    Tezzy Mum of 2 TTCAL

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    im trying to!!!!!!

    i cant believe the difference i feel in 24hours i was well happy yesterday!
     
  15. Tam

    Tam Mum of 2 - PG with No.3

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    lexis_mommy Well-Known Member

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    what a bunch of rude people....do you have a labour board or something? you should go to them thats discrimination and def not allowed... can't believe people are that rude hugs to you :) you're better off with out them :lol:
     
  17. Tezzy

    Tezzy Mum of 2 TTCAL

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    we're a really small company...

    did i mention that my boss is also my mother in law (to-be)

    theres only 7 of us who work here so we dont have a labour board hahaha


    things are no better today...

    all shes said is 'i need to speak with you later...'
     
  18. Tam

    Tam Mum of 2 - PG with No.3

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    OMG!!! YOUR MIL!!!!!! What have you got yourself into :lol:
     
  19. HB

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    I had a boss like that... she bullied me into going back after a mc... and I went back in... lasted half the day and said, no i'm not ready and she took me into the office and was telling me what a disgrace i was and blah blah blah.

    I wanted to smack her.... like she'd know what i was going through... she was a lesbian! lol!

    Can't believe she's your MIL to be! Suppose that makes it harder to smack her! lol!

    Hope you get it sorted hunny

    xox
     
  20. Tezzy

    Tezzy Mum of 2 TTCAL

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    UPDATE

    i am no longer working .... woohoo!

    my boss took me to one side at about 11.00...
    and told me there was no point in me carrying on workin coz theres nothing for me to do!

    so i finished work...right there and then!

    im gettin 3 weeks full pay before i start my maternity leave

     

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