What a shcok!

[Chilli]

No wisdom I'm afraid hun but lots of empathy. Such a lot of mixed feelings and now not sure whether baby will endure myself so let's be here for each oter.

I teach and completely appreciate how much more of your time your son must need, but I'm sure you'll cope if you have to - we all do! I was just 40 when I had my last daughter - it's a good age!

 

[maybebaby3]

We are not given more than we can handle. Hope Monday brings what you want

 

[Hiswillforme]

Thank you Chilli and Maybebaby3! You're both right that 40 is a good age and he does not gives us more than we can handle. My youngest has come along way and I know that he will get what he needs to continue to progress. Either way, I'm going to be blessed! Thank you for the support, and look for an update once I have one ladies. Best wishes to everyone!

 

[Chilli]

Any news? Monday has come and gone.
Me? Well feeling like I could happily murder somone most of the time and keep losing things so assuming all is well with LO... time will tell

 

[Hiswillforme]

So, I'm officially one day late. I decided to test earlier than Friday, so I purchased a test and gift cards for my son's teacher for Valentine's Day. I'm going somewhere with the gift cards When I got home and unpack, I discovered that the gift cards were not with my bags. After holding for customer service for a long time, I was told that my cards were at the registered. I told my hubby that we were going to test in the morning, and immediately discovered my missing test. Now I have to wait till Thursday morning to test.

We've accepted that we may have a change in our lives and will be grateful for the blessing! After the shock settled we are much better and will keep the faith!

It's too early to have mommy memory! It's time to keep sticky notes and a cute basket to place your keys, purse and other important items in. Chilli, do you feel different compared to your previous pregnancy?

 

[Chilli]

Well I've had a lot of them and they'v all beeen different but I've always done really dumb stuff like filling the car with the wrong fuel and the latest casualty is my video camera whch I can't find anywhere and know was, stupidly, in my baby's changing bag until recently. Have a vague recollection of leaving it on the side somewhere in some changing room - but where it is now????? Also am REALLY hormonal and grumpy as hell but tearful and cuddly too - really not good with this being such a difficult time for hubby

 

[Hiswillforme]

Well I've had a lot of them and they'v all beeen different but I've always done really dumb stuff like filling the car with the wrong fuel and the latest casualty is my video camera whch I can't find anywhere and know was, stupidly, in my baby's changing bag until recently. Have a vague recollection of leaving it on the side somewhere in some changing room - but where it is now????? Also am REALLY hormonal and grumpy as hell but tearful and cuddly too - really not good with this being such a difficult time for hubby

Oh my goodness, I hope that you find your camera and your memory comes back! Poor hubby and mommy..... It will get better.

Today, I picked up the test that I left at the store yesterday. Since AF did not show and I have two test, I'll do it tomorrow morning. It's early, but hey I have an extra one!

 

[maybebaby3]

Hiswillforme

 

[Hiswillforme]

Hi Maybebaby!

I've tested this morning, on my 3rd day late and received a I'm rarely late, but it's possible the shock of the accident and anxiety has thrown my cycle off. I will continue to treat my body as though it happened, since AF has not arrived and My blood test in the past were always low in HCG.

The cool thing is that my husband and I discovered how supportive, faithful and optimistic we've become. What a cool Valentine's gift If my cycle does not start by Tuesday, I will test again. I'm not sure if I'm having phantom symptoms or if they are actual. I've had ongoing cramping in my abdomen since 2/4, my breast are sensitive and swollen, extreme gas, decreased appetite (stopped my usual cravings for desserts), super oily face when usually dry and fatigue. I did not mention my symptoms before because some matched anxiety.

I'm not celebrating the BFN, because there is still a chance and I'm ok either way. I've warmed up to the idea. Ladies I really appreciate your journeys on the site, you all truly encouraged me from your stories! I will provide an update and keep praying for you all.

 

[maybebaby3]

Hi Maybebaby!

I've tested this morning, on my 3rd day late and received a I'm rarely late, but it's possible the shock of the accident and anxiety has thrown my cycle off. I will continue to treat my body as though it happened, since AF has not arrived and My blood test in the past were always low in HCG.

The cool thing is that my husband and I discovered how supportive, faithful and optimistic we've become. What a cool Valentine's gift If my cycle does not start by Tuesday, I will test again. I'm not sure if I'm having phantom symptoms or if they are actual. I've had ongoing cramping in my abdomen since 2/4, my breast are sensitive and swollen, extreme gas, decreased appetite (stopped my usual cravings for desserts), super oily face when usually dry and fatigue. I did not mention my symptoms before because some matched anxiety.

I'm not celebrating the BFN, because there is still a chance and I'm ok either way. I've warmed up to the idea. Ladies I really appreciate your journeys on the site, you all truly encouraged me from your stories! I will provide an update and keep praying for you all.

 

[Chilli]

Well scan today showed a small sack and slow hb - obyn says to come off all meds and wait for pg to fail - bit sad and also relieved - it's not a good feeling

 

[maybebaby3]

I'm so sorry chilli

 

[Chilli]

Thanks maybe - it's a horrible feeling knowing that something is struggling to survive inside you and there's nothing you can do to help it... even if it was someting you never plenned on having

 

[maybebaby3]

Is is for definite it'll be a mc? Or is there still a glimmer of hope?

 

[Chilli]

It think it's inevitable hun

 

[maybebaby3]

 

[angelrose2562]

I am presently 12 weeks pregnant, with 2 boys, 4 and 5. I found out I was preg 4 weeks ago, which was quite the shock, since I had my tubes tied and a dye test done to make sure 4 years ago! I felt just like you did at first. I am going to be 38 when the baby is born. However, after a week or 2 to digest, we are getting excited!

 

[maybebaby3]

Angel hope all goes well have you had a scan? I'm 15wks with no4 also a shock pregnancy!