What a suprise *yawn*

[expecting09]

Well as you all know, I sent a letter to FOB's parents telling them abit about Kacie, and they rang me back the day they got it saying thanks and that they'll most probably be down at some point to meet her. They said they'll ring me back after that weekend once they sat down and discussed it all. They seemed well enthusiastic.

But it's now been a month, and I've heard NOTHING. I know I did the right thing sending it, but why would they ring me all excited and then not bother ringing me back. They could of atleast have the decency to ring me and say that they spoke about everything and decided they'd leave us be

I've decided I'm definatly going to go to the CSA now, whether FOB has a job yet or not. I think if I did go to them he'd have to tell them when he does get a job He shouldn't be getting away with not paying for his daughter

 

[Linz88]

thats rude that they didnnt ring bk.. and yess go to the csa xx

 

[donegalfairy]

Maybe they feel like they are bothering you?
I dont know but thats what some people have said to me when they havent been in touch...

 

[suzanne108]

Aww, at least you tried and you can always say that to your daughter when she's older

Definitely give the CSA a try xx

 

[expecting09]

Maybe they feel like they are bothering you?
I dont know but thats what some people have said to me when they havent been in touch...

I doubt it, if they felt like they were going to be bothering me they wouldn't of said they'd ring me back after they had talked everything through. It's one thing not contacting again, but another when they said they would.

Does anyone know if CSA will keep him on record so he'll have to notify them when he gets a job?

 

[hypnorm]

i would phone them back and just ask them out right if they are interested or not.
Some people are nervous about phoning, do they know you well?
Give them a 2nd chance but if they blow it then tough on them.
I though csa make fathers pay £5 a month? whether they are working or not or they start to back date it.

 

[expecting09]

I think thats just if there on benefits? Not sure. FOB doesn't have any income, he only goes to college part time

I would of rang them if I had there number lol. I was thinking about contacting FOB to ask him what his parents discussed, but thats a no go idea. They know me quite well, so I don't think they would be all that nervous. I'm not going to contact them again, I broke the ice and made first contact, I tried. I'll give them another month or 2 to get in touch again, after that they can forget it. I've already given them a month to phone back or even email me

 

[xJG30]

Have to agree with Hypnorm, I'd give them a 2nd chance and see what happens.

Definitely take FOB To CSA though.

 

[lou_w34]

Their loss completlety!
You dont need them

At least you can always say you tried!

xxx

 

[teal]

I agree with lou. You tried and they'll be the ones missing out xx

 

[lou_w34]

Teal!!!
Tell that stubborn baby to get a shift on! lol
Youve clearly made it too comfy in there!

xx

 

[teal]

Teal!!!
Tell that stubborn baby to get a shift on! lol
Youve clearly made it too comfy in there!

xx

I know - it's rubbish being this overdue. Clearly a lazy baby! xx

 

[purpledahlia]

I wouldnt ring them again but maybe an email??

Its pretty rude of them, Def go to CSA, but students dont have to pay. Unless he has a part time job? if hes on benefits its a fiver a week, and when he gets a job it will be more, ive no idea if they check or if you have to tell them, Im assuming they can find out form inland revenue tho when an employer registers them for tax.

teal!! kick that bubba ooooot!!