What are your Xmas contact arrangements?

[LJaydow]

As some of you know I am going through the mill with FOB at the moment, and Ive taken out a harassment order against him and for the time being there is no contact but I am sure that will go to court soon and may or may not be sorted before xmas.

What are your contact arrangements? I have always wondered what the standard thing is for xmas time?

 

[whatwillbe]

My fob of my 3 kids still lives with his mom, so he's never really had them over nite with him on a regular basis, on Xmas day I usually let him come over And see the kids opening their pressents and spend some time with them, but me and him have never really had any major problems , the split was amicable, it's still not ideal but for the kids I don't mind, now with the fob of my little one on the way, he will not be welcome here, not that he will be bothered, he hasn't shown any interest in baby or contributed any money for anything for her, it's his loss though, I would just keep it you and baby Hun, why should someone who's been so much trouble get to spend one of the best times of the year in yours or lo's company ? X

 

[Jade--x]

If he hasn't already applied to court hon it isn't going to be sorted for a long time..You have to go through a lot before it even gets to the court stage ie. mediation..And it will no way be sorted by Christmas, so I wouldn't worry too much x

 

[Kate&Lucas]

FOB has Lucas overnight on Dec 23rd and brings him back Christmas Eve morning. I really wish he'd have him Boxing Day instead, I feel like he's getting his Christmas in early and taking the shine off mine but he works all over Christmas so what can ya do!

 

[fairydust87]

Noah will be going to his dads on christmas day. I dont mind as I dont celebrate it. Gonna bring him back in the evening x

 

[Dream.dream]

My sonn dad gets the day before Christmas supervised at my moms

I think tho lots of people split the day or do everyother Christmas sort of thing

 

[Natsku]

Well I'm really hoping that FOB will get only supervised access but in case that doesn't happen, my offer in my application to court is every other year he gets her for a week over the christmas period. I couldn't do something like he would get some time on christmas every year as I will want to take Maria to England some years for christmas.

 

[pinkie77]

My older 3 are with me on Christmas Day and their dad on Boxing Day. Then they usually spend a few days with him visiting family over new year.
I have absolutely no idea what's happening with phoebes dad as he's not mentioned seeing her at all! I know he's busy Xmas day and Boxing Day is football *shrug*

 

[wishuwerehere]

He's having her for 4 days from boxing day this year

 

[Melissa93]

My little girl is due to go to her dad's the weekend before Christmas so he is having her extra night so he can do presents with her Christmas eve then brings her back that evening and I have her Christmas day x