second.time
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There is a breed of horse named gypsy vanner. So in the USA at least it's not considered offensive or racial.
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And a reality TV show.. and a few other things I am sure.
No, it is definitely considered offensive toward Romani people in the U.S. (especially women). Some people still don't recognize it as a racial slur but it is ... think about, for example, "Eskimo pie." Eskimo is a pretty rude slur but you still see it used because people didn't care in the past and it's still lingering.
We're slowly getting better at respecting people's racial heritage but a lot of hateful terms are still holding on.
I understand it's your choice to name your child but you also need to realize this is a whole human being you're naming. What might be cute on a toddler is one day going to belong to a 22-year-old woman looking for jobs, or a 40-year-old woman in the board room, or a 60-year-old woman meeting new people and introducing herself.
If my parents had named me something offensive I'd be devastated by it once I was old enough to understand. I'd hate to think of hurting someone with my name alone.
I was not wanting to name my kid that. I was just tossing out there what I knew of the use of the word gypsy in the USA. Because again, it is a known horse breed.
https://vanners.org
I have never heard the word used in a offensive manner. Maybe I need to get out more. *shrug* ignorance is bliss.
Yes, sorry, the rest of my post was directed at the OP. I get that it's hard to see a word as offensive or hurtful if you've never heard it that way. We have "gypsy" Halloween costumes and everything. But it does come from a negative place. It doesn't mean you're a bad person for using it innocently, just that once you know it's good to keep that in mind!
I also remembered that the only person I've heard of named Gypsy is Gypsy Rose Blanchard, which isn't the greatest association.