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I dont quite know what to say ... but I get the feeling you are listening to what the girls are saying and holding off for a bit...
good choice hun!!
good choice hun!!
I guess you don't want to answer the other questions?
I guess you don't want to answer the other questions?
Stalker that I am, I have looked through some of OPs older posts to get some answers as this matter really concerns me.
Autumn Rose - from my understanding
1) You are living with you Mother and rely on state benefits
2) You were looking into getting a mortgage even though you don't have a job
3) You have a social phobia that prevents you from doing anything about the above.
4) Your beloved is only 18 years old too and a student
Reading through the lines, I think we can conclude that you are not currently living in the real world. You think you are "in love" with some guy on the internet - but really it doesn't matter how you feel about him cos he is essentially a sperm donor.
It really doesn't matter if he buggers off when you get pregnant, cos you will have your perfect baby, the garden will be rosy and sod looking for a job cos the state will support you.
The harsh reality is that you will most probably be suffering from your nervous disorder which could in fact be made worse by being pregnant and any post natal issues. Your poor old Mum will be bringing the baby up because you will be too incapacitated to and old lover boy will be a distant memory.
Sorry to burst your bubble love - but get from behind that bloody computer and get some counselling, get a job and then you're meet someone really worthy enough to even contemplate having a baby with.
I really hope for everyones sake that you look back on this in 20 years time and see it all as a teenagers foolish dream.
Lizzie, 33, can fit into clothes meant for a 10-year-old but at 5ft 2in tall and just over seven stone she does not look out of proportion.
Her BMI of 18.3 is slightly under the World Health Organisation's recommended minimum of 18.5
also if you are now going it alone to so called cure your social phobia problems how do you know that you will be fine by Dec???????
Surely if it was as easy as that and you could pencil in a cured by date then all the treatment would have worked a long time ago........
It all seems a bit far out to me personally
also if you are now going it alone to so called cure your social phobia problems how do you know that you will be fine by Dec???????
Surely if it was as easy as that and you could pencil in a cured by date then all the treatment would have worked a long time ago........
It all seems a bit far out to me personally
Why are you being so insensitive? I dont have to explain my illness to you because you just seem to enjoy critisizing and putting me down. Get off my back if you have nothing nice to say.
Yes, but i didnt ask them to be personal and put me down for even trying to get better.
Ok I'm really not liking smart ass comments like this nomatter what - Can I point out that this is NOT how we talk to each other on BabyandBump regardless of what peoples personal views on the circumstances - shes 18 not 10.Dont they make dolls over there for the youngsters anymore?????
I guess you don't want to answer the other questions?
Stalker that I am, I have looked through some of OPs older posts to get some answers as this matter really concerns me.
Autumn Rose - from my understanding
1) You are living with you Mother and rely on state benefits
2) You were looking into getting a mortgage even though you don't have a job
3) You have a social phobia that prevents you from doing anything about the above.
4) Your beloved is only 18 years old too and a student
Reading through the lines, I think we can conclude that you are not currently living in the real world. You think you are "in love" with some guy on the internet - but really it doesn't matter how you feel about him cos he is essentially a sperm donor.
It really doesn't matter if he buggers off when you get pregnant, cos you will have your perfect baby, the garden will be rosy and sod looking for a job cos the state will support you.
The harsh reality is that you will most probably be suffering from your nervous disorder which could in fact be made worse by being pregnant and any post natal issues. Your poor old Mum will be bringing the baby up because you will be too incapacitated to and old lover boy will be a distant memory.
Sorry to burst your bubble love - but get from behind that bloody computer and get some counselling, get a job and then you're meet someone really worthy enough to even contemplate having a baby with.
I really hope for everyones sake that you look back on this in 20 years time and see it all as a teenagers foolish dream.
This is totally off topic but I have just noticed your weight loss ticker. Surely 18.3 BMI is not healthy??
I just got this off a website
Lizzie, 33, can fit into clothes meant for a 10-year-old but at 5ft 2in tall and just over seven stone she does not look out of proportion.
Her BMI of 18.3 is slightly under the World Health Organisation's recommended minimum of 18.5
If you get pregnant you will put on weight not lose it. Please just concetrate on being a teen and enjoying life at the moment, I love my kids to bits but I do wish I had waited until I was older x
Shes had that ticker for months and it hasn't moved at all so I doubt shes going to get anywhere close to an underweight bmi.
also if you are now going it alone to so called cure your social phobia problems how do you know that you will be fine by Dec???????
Surely if it was as easy as that and you could pencil in a cured by date then all the treatment would have worked a long time ago........
It all seems a bit far out to me personally