What is fair access?

[Weeplin]

I'm expecting my baby girl in 9 weeks and I'm just wondering what sort of access to give to her dad who wants to be involved.

I find it very difficult to be in his company, not because he is nasty just that I am kind of resenting having him in my life permently right now, I am hoping this fades but I am quite a stress head and I dont want to be stressed out all the time.

Saying that he wants to be involved and I dont want to be unfair and I do want him involved in his daughters life. I don't want him there all the time but what is fair access? I also don't want to have to wait in for him, do you think it's ok have set days and times?

Any advice is really appreciated.

 

[Strawberrymum]

I think you should defiantly have set days and times. Do what's most comfortable for you and your LO sorry I can't give much advice my LO doesn't see her dad ( thank god )