i see it as follows:
TTC - actively having as much sex as possible, trcaking ovulation, poss temping, pre-seed etc generally being obsessed and hoping for pregnancy every month
NTNP - having normal sex when you fancy it but without protection, happy to have a baby if one comes along but also happy not to get pregnant. taking things easy and slow. not testing every month and not symptom spotting!
Not obsessing YET!
Where abouts in Yorkshire are you, btw, if you don't mind me asking, wwchix?