Misscalais
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I think you need to see a Dr, sounds serious to me that you 'hate' and only 'tolerate' your son even with my GD I never felt hate towards my boys. You might need to go on some anti depressants for a while.
I'm so sorry you're feeling this way, chances are if the baby had a vagina, she'd still scream and cry, still have issues eating and still be a typical baby and you'd probably still feel the same way.
I really feel for you that you're having such a tough time! Big
Just remember your little baby loves his mum so much and it's not his fault he's a boy, try give your babies the love you wanted to get as a child from your mum.
Also I'm having my 3rd son in May. So no girls for me either but after having two miscarriages and the awful issues I've had this pregnancy I'm just glad I have a healthy baby to take home soon. It doesn't matter that he's not a girl, sure I still get sad at other people's girl announcements, seeing girls clothes and accessories but that's life we just have to move on and live with the miracles we have been given.
I'm so sorry you're feeling this way, chances are if the baby had a vagina, she'd still scream and cry, still have issues eating and still be a typical baby and you'd probably still feel the same way.
I really feel for you that you're having such a tough time! Big
Just remember your little baby loves his mum so much and it's not his fault he's a boy, try give your babies the love you wanted to get as a child from your mum.
Also I'm having my 3rd son in May. So no girls for me either but after having two miscarriages and the awful issues I've had this pregnancy I'm just glad I have a healthy baby to take home soon. It doesn't matter that he's not a girl, sure I still get sad at other people's girl announcements, seeing girls clothes and accessories but that's life we just have to move on and live with the miracles we have been given.