what is wrong

[raisiMaryland]

I'm 21 years old and barley started having sex a few months ago. Me and my boyfriend haven't been using north control. I'm not exactly trying to have a baby bit the fact that I haven't gotten pregnant has started to
worry me. What could be wrong? I feel llike I'll never be able to have a baby so it has me dreadin. My inevitable period. I just need some advice.

 

[purplecupcake]

If you're not trying to have a baby...what's the problem? You need to be more responsible. You sound very young and it does not seem like you are in any place to be having a baby.

 

[raisiMaryland]

Let me add a little something to this since I'm being judged instead of helped. I am engaged and live
in my own.house with my own car and have my own job.I am 21, not a kid in high,school. It is true that I am not actively trying to have a baby. But I'm open to the option. I was just a scared girl looking for a little advice from someone who knows a little more than I do. Thanks though purplecupcake

 

[AmandaFelton]

Have you always had regular periods? I wouldn't worry. It takes the average couple 6 months to ayear to conceive.

 

[Onions]

Sometimes it takes actively trying to conceive. I wouldn't worry until you have been trying to get pregnant for a year

 

[DBZ34]

You only have a 20% chance of conceiving each month, so even though you always hear about people falling pregnant really quickly/on accident, it's not the norm. It can take a normal couple up to a year to conceive.

I wouldn't worry about what's happening with you until you start actively TTC. It could be something as small as you're not having sex at the right times and you're missing the best days for conception.

Good luck!

 

[Ariannda]

If you're not actually trying to have a baby you have very little to worry about. Even if actively trying you dont necessarily have anything to worry about. Sometimes it takes people several years when they're fine