Just wondering how much time is taken up with your LO's? some days it feels i dont get a chance to do anything what with feeding,meds,spotting tired signs and putting to sleep,bath,wash,getting changed,placing around various playmats/chairs,washing,pumping for meds,sterilising etc etc Then throw in my 2 stepsons...school runs,feeding,dinners,lunchboxes,homework,baths,washing,keeping amused as they always say "im bored im bored" what is it with kids now that they have a whole room of toys they never play with! Anyway also throw in a BF who knows you have just hoovered and washed the floor and proceeds to wipe crumbs onthe floor from the kitchen sideboard and takes lazy short cuts on everything he does..... So i think my life is 95% all that and only 5% me Really upset at the mo as this is not what i wanted to be doing when i had my first baby! Its like sometimes i dont get the enjoyment parts as im trying to run around doing everything else. Its to the point also that i cant leave BF with Tabs as a few times she has started to choke or distressed cry and he doesnt even respond! I have to have a quick bath when i know boys are in bed and Tabs is asleep downstairs and BF is on the computer....even then its a quick 5 mins job and out as i dont trust him to respond to her and when she crys sometimes he doesnt know what to do so i cant relax in the bath or do whatever i want to do. He also knows her feed times but never takes the initiative to go make a bottle/get meds ready etc. Sorry wasnt meant to be a rant but just wondering how much time everyone else gets?