I was team yellow with my last three - thought it was so exciting finding out 'It's a Boy /Girl' at the birth and having not quite decided on a particular name - there was the excited questions after the baby arrived, like boy /or girl, what are you calliing him/her, as well as the usual weight, etc - whereas most ppl I know who found out the sex, also knew the name and it was more of, Baby ............. was born; - Oh good! lol
However my sis just had a LO and (I saw it from the scan so I knew) only her , DP and her eldest daughter knew the sex; they didn't let on to anyone else that they even actually found out and just pretended to be on team yellow.(other than me cos I asked outright cos I could see the sex in the pic lol) And it didn't ruin the excitement at all - I was so excited just to find out she was having a blue one, after three pinks and even being 99% sure of his anticipated name - it was still so exciting when he arrived. (If not a bit tense and worrying as he was 9 weeeks early)
Sorry to ramble ramble, I'll get to the actual answer to the question lol
This time around I am going to definately (maybe! lol ) find out the sex.
1. I have already had 3 neutral nurseries -want a pink / or blue this time
2.I got rid of all my baby stuff after deciding a few years go that we were done -and now we are not and I'll have to buy new, I want gender specific this time
3. Shhhhh. dont want to say this one too loud.... but I would really like another girl this time -pink frillies, dresses, wee floppy hats, hair in bunches etc!! And I'll be delighted with a boy also, obviously I will love whichever sex unconditionally, but I want pre-warned just incase at the birth I find myself being a little disappointed that i wont ever be having another little girl.
Sorry if that sounds really horrible,
but just wanted to be honest... and I love my 2 boys I have to bits, in fact they were the perfect little babies, toddlers and even now boys -all cuddly and still love their mummy cuddles, whereas Miss Independant grew up all too quickly and even now, is 15 going on 25 lol