What the bump does.

[teenmommy15]

i hope so i hope tons of girls see the post and do it and post pics maybe i'll make a thread that they can post pics in if they do any of the ideas

 

[Kate1993]

Teenmommy15- ummm yes!!! that is basically the smartest thing I heard all day!

 

[teenmommy15]

i posted a thread hopefully people read it

 

[Kate1993]

So today I went with my family shopping and I just felt like soooo many people were looking at me as a bad person because of this):

 

[teenmommy15]

felt people were looking at you bad because your pregnant? everytime i go shopping for baby stuff everyone stares most people judge but most of them are older and look down on me because im a pregnant teen i mean im kinda use to it by it now because people will be people and they'll judge if they want to and i cant do anything about that.

 

[Kate1993]

It's was mostly older looking people. It's the first timeout have went shopping or anything since I started showing. I felt like they were looking down on me like because of this I was a terrible girl, but I'm not

 

[teenmommy15]

People dont understand and unfortunately theirs nothing we can do about people like them we kind of just gotta ignore them but i know exactly how you feel.

 

[thecurlymama]

People never really look at me funny when I'm out shopping or out and about, I don't think that people ever really know how old I am. My boyfriend's older and people have always assumed I'm at least a year or two older than I actually am. Plus I don't usually hang out with anybody my age, so I suppose that could be a factor. I hate hearing that people would give young pregnant women bad looks, though. Ugh ... It's just so unfair!!

 

[bsd]

Don't let those people get to you! Having a baby is a beautiful miracle and a blessing. I agree it's good to make sure your responsible enough to take care of a child but who is anybody to put an age on when that responsibility happens?? People have sex.. and I guarantee half those people that gave you dirty looks had sex when they were 16 and possibly younger. You are doing a great thing by keeping your child and taking responsibility for your actions. They are the morons for not seeing that as a good thing!!

I was 20 most of my pregnancy but I have a baby face... and my OH turned 19 two months before LO was born so we looked like a really young couple and got looks all the time. This one lady even used me as a bad example for her 15(probably) year old daughter. She said OUT LOUD as we walked by "See that's why you be proactive!" I just wanted to turn around and bitch her out.. she doesn't know a damn thing about me I could be in my mid 20's, in my own house and married. Who are you to judge me? I was the bigger person in the situation and walked away but that stupid lady to this day irritates me!! We just shouldn't let stupid people like this get us down.. babies are absolutely amazing and I don't think there's one negative thing about having my LO when I did