Smille24
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I just found out that I'm pregnant after 2.5yrs of ttc. Our 1st IUI was successful and we're in shock bc the cpn who did the procedure said we had no chance.
My mom knows about our struggle and has been so supportive. She's helped with my dd so I can go to dr appts and was there to cry to when I felt so low. She knows I'm supposed to go for bloodwork this week, so of course she keeps asking if I know anything yet. She is very excited.
I really want to tell her, but my dh said I'm not to tell anyone. He's terrified it will jinx things. He said to tell her it didn't work and tell her after 8 weeks. I respect my dh and don't want to lose his trust, but I feel so torn.
My mom knows about our struggle and has been so supportive. She's helped with my dd so I can go to dr appts and was there to cry to when I felt so low. She knows I'm supposed to go for bloodwork this week, so of course she keeps asking if I know anything yet. She is very excited.
I really want to tell her, but my dh said I'm not to tell anyone. He's terrified it will jinx things. He said to tell her it didn't work and tell her after 8 weeks. I respect my dh and don't want to lose his trust, but I feel so torn.