Optional hospital bag checklist items for mom
Very light reading (think magazines and newspapers, not War and Peace)
Earbuds to listen to music on your phone
Bath towel (the hospital will probably supply a very thin, small one)
Hairdryer
A comfy pillow from home (with a case that can get ruined, in a pattern distinguishable from hospital white)
A few pairs of maternity underwear that can get ruined (the hospital will have disposable pairs, which some women find handy and others find gross)
A ruin-able nightgown (you can use those lovely hospital gowns, but your own might help you feel more human)
Breastfeeding pillow
HOSPITAL BAG CHECKLIST FOR BABY
Approved infant car seat
A coming-home outfit (bring clothes in different sizes to make sure they fit!)
Warm blankets (for the ride home)
Outdoor gear like a snowsuit and hat, as seasonally appropriate (newborns are extra sensitive to cold)