imaswimmer2
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I think what she is train to say is to trust your instincts rather than your Doppler! Further on in pregnancy if you feel you have reduced movements etc get checked by a professional am don't do it yourself. She wasn't trying to scare the lady it has just come across wrong.
Imaswimmer2 that's pretty rude the lady obviously trusts her midwife who is trained in that area!!
I'll accept being rude before watching my tongue if I think a mother-to-be is given unnecessarily stressful advice. As one of the many unfortunate mothers of angel babies, I understand how terrifying this time can be, so why allow any additional stress. Finding your LOs hb should be a joyous occasion and give you some peace of mind- not be a cause of added stress or fear. The notion that a midwife mistook multiple women's placenta for hb's is just plain crazy. I'm untrained, and I can absolutely tell the difference.