I can't believe that I am admitting this but my son is 3 months old now and I still haven't had sex with my hubby since the birth. I'm a breast feeding mom and just started the pill a month ago, but still no period. My dilema: I haven't wanted to have sex, there hasn't been any desire. Before, I always desired it, but now, I don't. Is anyone else like this? I think I'm driving my husband mad, poor guy. Also, I'm scared to have sex since I'm not having periods, how will I tell when I'm ovulating and all that so I can avoid getting pregnant? Those of you who have done the deed and not having periods, how can you tell that you are being extra careful? I just went off , if I have a period the following month, I'm not pregnant. I won't have that indication anymore. Does this make sense?