faille
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This is my first so I have no idea what to expect.
Only things that are really important to me is that OH is allowed to stay with me at ALL times and he is the only person to be present during labour/birth.
And I want the MW to tell me what to do not vice versa!! I want them to recommend me pain releif for the amount of pain I'm in, I want them to tell me when and when not to push etc.
I don't mind one or two students in the room but only if observing or doing 'little' tasks.. if this was my second I might not mind as much but as I don't know what to expect, I want to make sure everyone is pro and things are being done properly.
I also want the freedom to move/walk around if I want.
Apart from that, I'll be going with the flow as long as they don't try and cut me or use assisted deliverey unless absolutely necessary (in which case I'd rather them use the sucker and not forceps). But saying that, I'd rather be cut than tear cuz at least then it's under control and done 'cleanly'.
Only things that are really important to me is that OH is allowed to stay with me at ALL times and he is the only person to be present during labour/birth.
And I want the MW to tell me what to do not vice versa!! I want them to recommend me pain releif for the amount of pain I'm in, I want them to tell me when and when not to push etc.
I don't mind one or two students in the room but only if observing or doing 'little' tasks.. if this was my second I might not mind as much but as I don't know what to expect, I want to make sure everyone is pro and things are being done properly.
I also want the freedom to move/walk around if I want.
Apart from that, I'll be going with the flow as long as they don't try and cut me or use assisted deliverey unless absolutely necessary (in which case I'd rather them use the sucker and not forceps). But saying that, I'd rather be cut than tear cuz at least then it's under control and done 'cleanly'.