I'm in a much worse boat! We had two mmc before our daughter so we abstained during pregnancy with her (combination of not being in the mood, dh too nervous to touch me, ms and ob/gyn saying "there's no evidence to say it's harmful - just decide how you would feel and if you would blame yourself if anything went wrong and you'd been having sex")
Then our little Velcro baby was born so c section meant things weren't happening for around eight weeks. Then there was the initial sleep deprivation. Then she slept relatively well for a couple of months but we were out of the habit so it didn't happen often. Then she hit six months and would only sleep for max of 90 minutes at a time until she turned a year! Then we discovered she would sleep IF she was holding on to me. So we did that for a few months.
Then, when she was 22 mo we got pregnant again and haven't had sex since! So we've probably had sex 10/12 times in three years. I kid you not.
Now we're at stage where baby is wriggling, it feels strange so I know we won't know until after 6 week check up... Meaning it will be another 18 weeks!
I do miss it and we do discuss missing it... And then we cuddle and say "sorry I'm just so tired!" We have the rest if our lives to make up for this lost time!