bump.on.brain
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I'm just wondering when everybody is planning on telling their work that they are pregnant? I'm only 4 weeks at the moment and wasn't planning on telling anybody until we've told DD at 12 weeks... but I'm a bit worried about whether I can wait until then to tell work.
My job will have to be covered and after a lot of maternity leaves in the department recently my line manager has joked that "I'm not allowed to go on maternity leave". As much as it was a joke he isn't aware that I have been TTC and when I first started this job I wasn't planning on having anymore DC so he is probably still under that impression.
I'm worried that whenever I tell him he won't be thrilled/may feel misled, but at the moment the department is having a restructure/staffing review to see how many more people we need to recruit and I'm wondering if I tell him after that is complete he might be even more annoyed (as they might have made a different decision to recruit more if they'd known).
Given that I'm going to worry about it, maybe it's worth getting it over and done with sooner? And work may appreciate that which would make it easier... But then I don't really want work to know before DD/family/friends and am worried about being before 12 weeks.
Help! What would you do?
My job will have to be covered and after a lot of maternity leaves in the department recently my line manager has joked that "I'm not allowed to go on maternity leave". As much as it was a joke he isn't aware that I have been TTC and when I first started this job I wasn't planning on having anymore DC so he is probably still under that impression.
I'm worried that whenever I tell him he won't be thrilled/may feel misled, but at the moment the department is having a restructure/staffing review to see how many more people we need to recruit and I'm wondering if I tell him after that is complete he might be even more annoyed (as they might have made a different decision to recruit more if they'd known).
Given that I'm going to worry about it, maybe it's worth getting it over and done with sooner? And work may appreciate that which would make it easier... But then I don't really want work to know before DD/family/friends and am worried about being before 12 weeks.
Help! What would you do?