Okay so when I was trying to get pregnant with my 1st son, which it took a while, the dr told us to BD every other night. We used ovulation tests and figured out that I was ovulating later than what we thought. 2nd cycle using those, BAM pregnant. With my 2nd son, he was a surprise. It happened really quick and we were surprised. My kids are now 18, 9, and 7. We wanted another and it happened after only 4 months of NTNP but we miscarried in August and have been trying again and we don't want it to take a long time because I just turned 40, so should we BD every night around ovulation time or just stick to every night? Thanks for any advice.