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Tilly
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Having a bit of trouble with Bethanie recently, lots of mood swings!
1) Teeth brushing - she refuses to, she usually refuses every so often.. but recently it is rare for her to let me do them (she likes doing her own teeth, but I like to do them properly as she would rather eat the toothpaste and put the brush under the tap). I've tried the "you do mummys, i'll do yours", "you do 'babys' teeth (baby is her doll, letting her do them before/after I have done them). These techniques work for a few seconds, then the mouth snaps shut and I get annoyed before the day has even begun! She does it fine for daddy at night, so why not me?!
2) Related to teeth brushing - I start by saying, "ok lets do your teeth" and tell her that she'll get a star (she sticks a star up when she has done teeth like a big girl lol) - she starts off ok, but then she has a massive paddy.. I say "ok, no star then" and put her down. I pick her up 5 minutes later and she brushes them like a good girl - do I give her a star still because shes been good or because had the original paddy, do I forget it altogether.. If I give her a star am I just training her to be a moody thing to get what she wants even after a tantrum?
Shes also hitting still and bit her arm yesterday for the first time, so I can see that coming soon! - do you think im not strict enough or something?
Advice appreciated! thanks
1) Teeth brushing - she refuses to, she usually refuses every so often.. but recently it is rare for her to let me do them (she likes doing her own teeth, but I like to do them properly as she would rather eat the toothpaste and put the brush under the tap). I've tried the "you do mummys, i'll do yours", "you do 'babys' teeth (baby is her doll, letting her do them before/after I have done them). These techniques work for a few seconds, then the mouth snaps shut and I get annoyed before the day has even begun! She does it fine for daddy at night, so why not me?!
2) Related to teeth brushing - I start by saying, "ok lets do your teeth" and tell her that she'll get a star (she sticks a star up when she has done teeth like a big girl lol) - she starts off ok, but then she has a massive paddy.. I say "ok, no star then" and put her down. I pick her up 5 minutes later and she brushes them like a good girl - do I give her a star still because shes been good or because had the original paddy, do I forget it altogether.. If I give her a star am I just training her to be a moody thing to get what she wants even after a tantrum?
Shes also hitting still and bit her arm yesterday for the first time, so I can see that coming soon! - do you think im not strict enough or something?
Advice appreciated! thanks