Snow Owl
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So we really want to get married in 2015, but honestly I don't think we can afford it
We've worked out we need to save about £250 a month, not going to happen At a push we can save £150 a month BUT this never happens due to every month something coming up! This month LO needed a high chair, we've planned to go visit our friend and my yearly membership for an organisation I'm part of has come up.
People keep saying 'why not do this' to cut costs. But we've budgeted £2.5-3k for a wedding for 80 in the day and 120 at night. Personally I think we're doing well and can't see this being cut at all! We're doing pretty much everything ourself and have managed to get wedding breakfast for about £8 a head and evening buffet for £250. Which I think is a bargain!
It's my second wedding so my parents are unable to help and OHs mum has made it clear 'its not her job to help'.
We could just have the ceremony and a meal, but were looking at a big bridal party (we're part of a big social group that were no closer to one than another) and my family is 'invite one, invite all'. But that's about 60 people! And I love my cousins and so want them there!!
It just appears everyone around us has huge budgets and I just hate feeling like this
Can we just not afford to get married? Is anyone else in similar situ?
We've worked out we need to save about £250 a month, not going to happen At a push we can save £150 a month BUT this never happens due to every month something coming up! This month LO needed a high chair, we've planned to go visit our friend and my yearly membership for an organisation I'm part of has come up.
People keep saying 'why not do this' to cut costs. But we've budgeted £2.5-3k for a wedding for 80 in the day and 120 at night. Personally I think we're doing well and can't see this being cut at all! We're doing pretty much everything ourself and have managed to get wedding breakfast for about £8 a head and evening buffet for £250. Which I think is a bargain!
It's my second wedding so my parents are unable to help and OHs mum has made it clear 'its not her job to help'.
We could just have the ceremony and a meal, but were looking at a big bridal party (we're part of a big social group that were no closer to one than another) and my family is 'invite one, invite all'. But that's about 60 people! And I love my cousins and so want them there!!
It just appears everyone around us has huge budgets and I just hate feeling like this
Can we just not afford to get married? Is anyone else in similar situ?