nikkip75
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What do you do?? how far do you let them go before you step in?
Its just that my 4year old and 14 month old have started having little spats! Yesterday it was over a pencil, * had it *wanted it. It ended in a tug o war with a pencil and grabbing hair and pulling her to the ground (screaming full pitch!)
I had to seperate them ofcourse but i dont want to be stepping in for every little "fight" they have. I would always step in if there is a danger of one of them being injured but i think they should be able to have little fights and be able to sort things out between them shouldnt they ?? Afterall they are sisters and no matter how much they love eachother they are going to fight.
Its always * that starts the fight though so its not like her big sister is bullying her, more defending herself!
But am i doing the right thing leaving them to it or shall i stop it before it even happens, which would be about 50 times a day.
Arghh i dont know if im doing right for doing wrong!!!HELP!
Its just that my 4year old and 14 month old have started having little spats! Yesterday it was over a pencil, * had it *wanted it. It ended in a tug o war with a pencil and grabbing hair and pulling her to the ground (screaming full pitch!)
I had to seperate them ofcourse but i dont want to be stepping in for every little "fight" they have. I would always step in if there is a danger of one of them being injured but i think they should be able to have little fights and be able to sort things out between them shouldnt they ?? Afterall they are sisters and no matter how much they love eachother they are going to fight.
Its always * that starts the fight though so its not like her big sister is bullying her, more defending herself!
But am i doing the right thing leaving them to it or shall i stop it before it even happens, which would be about 50 times a day.
Arghh i dont know if im doing right for doing wrong!!!HELP!