Hey, thanks for this. Yes this is pretty much where I'm at right now. Going to make an appointment with the doc and get off it. I'm 38, so I don't have much time left. I don't want one past 40 ( just my personal preference).Have you been totally honest with him about how upset it makes you when he mentions babies and everyone around you having babies/being pregnant? That would piss me off to no end. I would talk to him and if you need to get angry, get angry. Babies are a huge life decision, and its an awful feeling when someone makes the decision for you, and there's nothing you can do about it. And then to add salt to the wound, basically tease you with stories of all these babies coming into the world. Not nice at all. Next time a friend or family member mentions when are you having another, and your dh is around, I'd point blank say "my husband doesn't want anymore, but I'd love one more". Boom. Done. But I'm not afraid to rock the boat. I'm 35 and could give a rats ass now what people think. I wish you the best. My first baby was easy to get. Second, it took a MC, 1.5 yrs of ttc and then ended with IVF. So I've dealt with the anger of not being able to have the baby I so desperately wanted. But fortunately we got our rainbow baby. How old are you Lizzy?
I would get off the IUD and tell him condoms are the only option now, period. I for one can't go on any type of birth control so we just have to be careful. But it shouldn't be only on you to prevent pregnancy and be uncomfortable.
You're right. I need to get angry with him. I'm trying to hide it and deal with it myself but not doing a very good job of it. I think the comment to other people will also bring home the fact that I'm not happy so he will have to deal with something too. One of his friend's wife asked me, I replied ERM...., He replied no and the friend said to his wife, " well she might have another but it won't be with him!" I laughed!