Tabbyfourpaws, no it dosent sound selfish or wiered at all i can totally relate & i am feeling the same. I have said many times to my OH that i've had enough now & want it all to end, which i know sounds awful given that people are loosing their LO's. I too wish i could just have a break from feeling so awful. But then I'll have a pain or i kinda feel wet down there & think i'm loosing the LO & i panic & feel upset. I too know i would be devistated if anything happened to it.
I supose that kinda makes me realise that deep down i am happy about having a baby it just dosent seem so real yet & with feeling soo ill i just kinda feel down.
Its not helping at all that we only moved house in march, we started renovating & my house is a complete & utter tip, i mean literally, no floors in any room (apart from living room now), plaster knocked off walls, stuff everywhere, kitchen a mess, things just pilled up in different rooms, no heating down stairs. My OH is working all evening to try & get tings sorted so its stressing him out. I dont have the energy to do anything at night like putting washing away or make tea. The house was kinda getting me down without pregancy even tho i know it needs doing & it wont be forever, the pregnancy has just made things feel 100 times worse, & dont even get me started on the stresses of christmas haha.