Whos parents help them financially?

Just before Erin was born my Dad retired and sold his business and brought us a flat because rent here in London is just so expensive. They look after our girls at a weekend when I work (they take it in turns with the in laws) and they take them out, give them their meals etc and don't ask for a penny which I suppose they could do.

In laws aren't very well off so apart from the odd bit they put into savings for them we don't get anything else.
 
We never ask or expect anything from our parents, but they do help out. My mum pays for my phone contract, originally she was going to buy me the phone for Xmas and I was going to pay the contract but she was sneaky and decided she was going to pay it herself, I do try to give her the money for it but unless I physically put it in her purse she won't accept it. The contract runs out soon though and I'll be moving on to pay as you go.

My mum and step dad have also let me and oh live here rent free, again they won't accept any payment and would rather we save it got when we do move out.

Oh's parents are buying us a sofa when we move out.

I come from a very generous family who love spoiling and buying gifts for the little ones, my nan and granddad bought a lot for LO whilst I was pregnant as did my mum. We went to Asda for the baby event a couple of months ago and they wouldn't let me buy anything, I remember standing in an isle arguing with my nan over who was going to buy the playmat they had on offer:rofl:

My nan used to give me £20 a week for no reason what so ever and she still does occasionally give me money randomly.

I'm really lucky tbh, like I said we never ask or expect anything but if they want to give us something, money or gift-wise they won't take no for an answer, but at the same time they encourage us to stand on our own two feet, we don't get large amounts of money but what we do get we really appreciate and try to put it to good use.
 
My mum and dad try to help out, but they're not really in the right situation to. My in laws have no money, but my Gran helps us out a lot. Not so much now because we've got the hang of things, but when OH moved here at 17 with me and my parents, they brought him a motorbike so he could get to work, when that broke, they brought another one. He rode bikes for 4 years, until we had the money for him to do his driving test.
Then my pap gave him a car. None of these things are posh, the car is just an old saxo, but I am so thankfull, as we wouldn't be here without them.
 
Myself and husband live with my mum and in a few weeks we'll have the new addition to our family. Although my mum doesnt give us monetry support and we have actually just increased the amount of rent we give her to help cover the extra electricity (with the baby clothes, reuseable nappies and heating for bubba. We also buy all our own food) the fact that we can live there means our rent is half what it would be if we had our own place and allows us to save for a deposit for a house which is our goal. Also i'll have my own live-in babysitter which has got to be saving money :)
 

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