why cant i get pregnant???

[dragonfly111]

hello we have been trying to conceive ever since we got married 7 years ago! lots of test and docs appt they cant find anything wrong with us? last christmas i had given up , by some chance we conceived in febuary and i didnt even relise i was pregnant and we were 5 weeks gone!!! but at 13 weeks +2days i keept getting a brown discharge the hospital said everything was fine and baby was very active looking great , unfortunatly my waters broke and i went into labour , our little baby was gone so perfect and tiny i held you for a moment before they took you away, we had a funeral and i think i just went threw the motions but wasnt really there , 6 months on and we still cant get pregnant , we cant have ivf as we have conceived and you have to wait 3 years but by then ill be to old!! im now lossing hope and i cant stop thinking about babys pregnancy ect . how can i get pregnant????

 

[kristen16]

Im so sorry for your loss.

I completely understand. We have been ntnp for 6 years. We have been actively trying for over 2 years. I had a lap and hs done the beginning of this month. Its so hard to think for many it is so easy.

 

[Annie77]

sorry for your loss - it oftens happens that just as you stop actively trying mother nature kicks in but to then lose your baby was just so tragic.

I don't know what else to say except good luck with trying and I will keep fx for you

 

[skyraaa]

really hope u get ur bfp soon and a sticky bean u deserve it

 

[griffinh]

hey - sorry about your loss hun *hug*

Seems like you relaxed and 'gave up' trying, then fell pregnant. your body could well be getting back into rhythm still - i lost a bean at 5w6d in july and only got back to normal afterward in october!!! im only on my 2nd cycle since the loss, and it's been 4 months!

maybe try 'giving up' again and see what happens?xxx

 

[magicvw]

hello we have been trying to conceive ever since we got married 7 years ago! lots of test and docs appt they cant find anything wrong with us? last christmas i had given up , by some chance we conceived in febuary and i didnt even relise i was pregnant and we were 5 weeks gone!!! but at 13 weeks +2days i keept getting a brown discharge the hospital said everything was fine and baby was very active looking great , unfortunatly my waters broke and i went into labour , our little baby was gone so perfect and tiny i held you for a moment before they took you away, we had a funeral and i think i just went threw the motions but wasnt really there , 6 months on and we still cant get pregnant , we cant have ivf as we have conceived and you have to wait 3 years but by then ill be to old!! im now lossing hope and i cant stop thinking about babys pregnancy ect . how can i get pregnant????

Really sorry for your loss

If the docs don't know why you can't get pregnant I'm not sure we on here can really help that much. But may be if you tell us a bit more about your TTC journey? Do you chart ovulation? Do you bd a lot/when? What's your general health like? BnB has an infertility board which might be worth browsing over for some clues. Hope you find some answers