So I've just told my mum I'm pregnant...
Scary times.
And although she has told me she will support me whatever I decide to do, she thinks it's best I don't go through with it and she's asked me why I want to.
But seriously, the only reasons I can think of is "because it feels right" and "I'll feel guilty if I don't". I dunno, for some reason it just feels selfish to consider not having it.
Sooo many reasons why I SHOULDN'T-
I could finish my education and go on to do the course I have applied for
I don't have a boyfriend, never have, and the chances will probably decrease a lot when I have a baby
Would have to rely on my parents for a while
I'm not sure who the dad is (added stress)
Would have to give up my extremely fun and reckless lifestyle which I LOVE
But the fact remains, for some reason, I want my baby!!
And I don't know why...
So I thought I would ask, anyone else who is having an unplanned baby, what are your reasons for going ahead with it and devoting your life to some one else, when you could be having fun?
If anyone is/ was in a similar situation- i.e. no OH, unplanned baby, wasn't sure whether to keep it or not, please PM me I would love to talk to you about it cos I'm so stressed out
Scary times.
And although she has told me she will support me whatever I decide to do, she thinks it's best I don't go through with it and she's asked me why I want to.
But seriously, the only reasons I can think of is "because it feels right" and "I'll feel guilty if I don't". I dunno, for some reason it just feels selfish to consider not having it.
Sooo many reasons why I SHOULDN'T-
I could finish my education and go on to do the course I have applied for
I don't have a boyfriend, never have, and the chances will probably decrease a lot when I have a baby
Would have to rely on my parents for a while
I'm not sure who the dad is (added stress)
Would have to give up my extremely fun and reckless lifestyle which I LOVE
But the fact remains, for some reason, I want my baby!!
And I don't know why...
So I thought I would ask, anyone else who is having an unplanned baby, what are your reasons for going ahead with it and devoting your life to some one else, when you could be having fun?
If anyone is/ was in a similar situation- i.e. no OH, unplanned baby, wasn't sure whether to keep it or not, please PM me I would love to talk to you about it cos I'm so stressed out