Wow! Everyone has been through so much to get where they are!
My story is pretty simple, I started getting mega broody after out wedding in May 2009 but hubby wouldn't budge on the trying for a baby until we had more money and more space. Although I knew deep down it wasn't the right time I couldn't help the feelings I had and really took it out on hubby. He was great through the tantrums etc and I eventually got over myself. In July 2010 he agreed we could start trying soon after and I *think* we started trying in September. With my son I fell pregnant straight away, no waiting about and expected it to be the same this time aswell. But September came and so did AF. Got to October, same story, AF caught up with me and it was then I realised that I had a 32 day cycle. I joined this site in October, I was convinced I was pregnant because I had 2 weeks of positive OPK and even started looking at prams and nursery furniture
In the beginning of November I started reading about fertility spells by a woman on ebay, who'd been featured in a pregnancy magazine and helped loads of women get pregnant. So I thought 'what harm can it do?! It's only £8!' and bought it.
AF caught me on the 7th November but I was feeling really positive since I'd had my spell cast and done my part (I asked for a girl spell since I have a DS, I've always wanted one of each) and never told my hubby, he'd have told me I was mad lol. Anyway, we figured that since we'd have alot of nights out already booked over Christmas etc that we wouldn't 'try' that month and I ended up with a bad cold and only BD once, and since we weren't really trying I wasn't too bothered that it was on my OV day (was still using opk's and had lots of EWCM and ov pain) and we'd only done it that once.
On the 3rd Dec I was off work because of the snow and couldn't get my son to his childminders, so we decided to sledge it to our toddlers group. Turned out no-one else could get out their house and there was only 3 other kids there
but we mums sorted out the goodie bags for our Singing Kettle trip the next week. On leaving toddlers we crossed the road, into the Bakers for some lunch, into the newsagents for cigs and nipped into the chemist for a pregnancy test! Lol, it was pure curiosity because I hadn't had any symptoms but I knew with the snow we'd not get out for a while and it'd drive me crazy if I missed my period.
Got home and had lunch, then took the test. Got downstairs and looked at the test and could see the faintest of faint lines! I literally spun round the kitchen going crazy! I cracked open the test fast as anything and sure enough, there was a 2nd line
So I went for a cig
and texted a pic of my test to a friend to make sure I wasn't seeing things! She seen it too. When DH got in from work I handed him the test and he just said 'so does that mean.......' I said 'yeah' he replied 'ok, I'm going to fix your car
' I think he was in shock cos he knew we'd only had sex once! Obviously
That night I begged him to take me to the shopping centre to get a digi and it came back 'pregnant 1-2' I was hoenstly so shocked but so happy at the same time!
At 6 weeks I went to hospital with some bleeding and right sided pain and was convinced I'd lost my baby
Seen the tiny heartbeat at 6+4 and burst out crying lol. Had another scan at 9+2 due to more bleeding then the next week I lost a huge clot and more blood. By this time my son knew about his baby noodles and was so excited, the thought of losing this baby after telling him it was gone sent me a bit loopy
But a scan t 11 weeks showed a very active baby
Ever since then everything has been pretty straight forward apart from severe SPD and I cannot wait to meet my baby girl! I'm soo sorry, this is very long but I like to go into detail
You all are real inspirations
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