MummyMummy
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like i need the stress right now of even more worry my son is going to feel pushed out/unloved
he started school about 2 weeks ago... not once has his daddy took him/picked him up and as asked about him once, the day he started. he texted last night saying 'where and what time should i pick *name* up?' so i said he's at school till 12.30 and told him grandad would drop him off at 1pm. g/dad (nan too!) helping loads right now with fetching/carrying/minding as spd/pgp super sore.
grandad took him to his daddy and i phoned before picking mr.man up from work to ask for car seat,ready to pick up baby. this was at around 4pm. grandad said he was just on his way out to pick baby up!! his daddy was done with him at 4.30pm what on earth was the point in having him? not so long ago itold ex that baby was missing him and was wanting to phone him on his roary (the car) phone because he was convinced daddy would talk to him then and since that he hasn't made no extra effort at all!!! he usually sees son once a week (tue) then next week twice (tue and sat) around 5hours each time, he's cut his hours with baby today and he wont bother to make it up. he of course couldn't miss his band practise today/rearrange to spend more timewith baby!!
i don't make it hard for ex, only son that will sufferin end andit's not my place to do that and don't agreewith it, both me and mr.man have said you can have him whenever for however long, just let us have a bit of warning. have offered to drive them places so they can spend more time together/see more together if transport is a problem. gave email adds/house phone/all mobile numbers so there is no problem with gettingin contact to speak to/about son.i just want him to make more of an effort as baby misses him, alot and often tells us. he's so confused about his daddy not so long ago he lay on settee talking to himself saying 'i love my daddy. nooooo. i love my daddy. noooo' :'(
as you all know ifeel so bad and stressed right now, worrying that me and mr.man wont get thebalance right between both babies. i really don't need the hassell of ex cutting the amount of time he sees son down on top of everything else cause baby will pick up on it, as he has in past at 32weeks preg witha head full ofworries i don't need more
i wanna just him... but i don't even think that would knock some sense into him.
xXx
he started school about 2 weeks ago... not once has his daddy took him/picked him up and as asked about him once, the day he started. he texted last night saying 'where and what time should i pick *name* up?' so i said he's at school till 12.30 and told him grandad would drop him off at 1pm. g/dad (nan too!) helping loads right now with fetching/carrying/minding as spd/pgp super sore.
grandad took him to his daddy and i phoned before picking mr.man up from work to ask for car seat,ready to pick up baby. this was at around 4pm. grandad said he was just on his way out to pick baby up!! his daddy was done with him at 4.30pm what on earth was the point in having him? not so long ago itold ex that baby was missing him and was wanting to phone him on his roary (the car) phone because he was convinced daddy would talk to him then and since that he hasn't made no extra effort at all!!! he usually sees son once a week (tue) then next week twice (tue and sat) around 5hours each time, he's cut his hours with baby today and he wont bother to make it up. he of course couldn't miss his band practise today/rearrange to spend more timewith baby!!
i don't make it hard for ex, only son that will sufferin end andit's not my place to do that and don't agreewith it, both me and mr.man have said you can have him whenever for however long, just let us have a bit of warning. have offered to drive them places so they can spend more time together/see more together if transport is a problem. gave email adds/house phone/all mobile numbers so there is no problem with gettingin contact to speak to/about son.i just want him to make more of an effort as baby misses him, alot and often tells us. he's so confused about his daddy not so long ago he lay on settee talking to himself saying 'i love my daddy. nooooo. i love my daddy. noooo' :'(
as you all know ifeel so bad and stressed right now, worrying that me and mr.man wont get thebalance right between both babies. i really don't need the hassell of ex cutting the amount of time he sees son down on top of everything else cause baby will pick up on it, as he has in past at 32weeks preg witha head full ofworries i don't need more
i wanna just him... but i don't even think that would knock some sense into him.
xXx