Abz1982
Mum to 2 nutters!
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So I replied to a Post on FB on the childcare page.
MY view, MY opinion and why I feel something doesn't work for me and why it was affecting my children, and FOOK ME obviously I am wrong.
My opinion is wrong
What I do for my children is wrong.
Well excuse me if I refuse to work for a negative amount just to keep on in a career that I hated, or if I wont take a job that will actually cost me to do. My daughter WAS suffering from me working, MY daughter, MY situation. Mainly down to the commute and her having to be in childcare from 7/7:30am (some days 6:30 am if I had a lot on) till 6:30 7pm at night. Sorry but no, I would NOT do that for negative funds.
I personally, do not care that it would show my children me contributing to society, because when they ask what nice things we can do as I am working, and I have to tell them, well actually, you can no longer do this and we cant afford to go here because it is costing me more in childcare than I earn....what would they think?? I have spoken to my 7yt old about me going back to work and she gets so anxious she has panic attacks. Then she would have to stop doing all the things she loves - dancing, gymnastics, brownies - as there are no classes left on the weekend she can do and no one else who can take her during the week.
Now if someone was climbing a career ladder, or in professional training then I can FULLY understand why you would do this. The same as I understand that some people pay for their kids to go to nursery when they don't work(if you have no friends with kids the same age it is a god send!).
But wow....why do people have such issues with working and not working? One woman actually accused me of being one of those 'perfect mothers' in a snidey way, I really wish I had the mad between the lines reading skills she has, would have helped me in English so so much.
This is a pointless post, but it has really peeved me. We get everyone likeing memes that go around about not hating on each other, but dare to add your OWN PERSONAL experience and your shot down.
We women are some weird weird beings
MY view, MY opinion and why I feel something doesn't work for me and why it was affecting my children, and FOOK ME obviously I am wrong.
My opinion is wrong
What I do for my children is wrong.
Well excuse me if I refuse to work for a negative amount just to keep on in a career that I hated, or if I wont take a job that will actually cost me to do. My daughter WAS suffering from me working, MY daughter, MY situation. Mainly down to the commute and her having to be in childcare from 7/7:30am (some days 6:30 am if I had a lot on) till 6:30 7pm at night. Sorry but no, I would NOT do that for negative funds.
I personally, do not care that it would show my children me contributing to society, because when they ask what nice things we can do as I am working, and I have to tell them, well actually, you can no longer do this and we cant afford to go here because it is costing me more in childcare than I earn....what would they think?? I have spoken to my 7yt old about me going back to work and she gets so anxious she has panic attacks. Then she would have to stop doing all the things she loves - dancing, gymnastics, brownies - as there are no classes left on the weekend she can do and no one else who can take her during the week.
Now if someone was climbing a career ladder, or in professional training then I can FULLY understand why you would do this. The same as I understand that some people pay for their kids to go to nursery when they don't work(if you have no friends with kids the same age it is a god send!).
But wow....why do people have such issues with working and not working? One woman actually accused me of being one of those 'perfect mothers' in a snidey way, I really wish I had the mad between the lines reading skills she has, would have helped me in English so so much.
This is a pointless post, but it has really peeved me. We get everyone likeing memes that go around about not hating on each other, but dare to add your OWN PERSONAL experience and your shot down.
We women are some weird weird beings