charliemeg
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DH and I have always said we are going to adopt after we have had our own children. But instead of adopting a younger child, adopt an older one as (as awful as it is to say) they are not as wanted and more likely to go in foster care instead.
We both feel we have enough love and stability to offer a child or maybe more but people say its a bad idea. They tell me that it will be hard work but surely it is harder for the child? I feel really sad that people try and talk me out of it.
It is a defo in our book and of course we will make sure our own children are comfortable about it. It makes me sad that there are so many unwanted children in todays world so why not help them.
We both feel we have enough love and stability to offer a child or maybe more but people say its a bad idea. They tell me that it will be hard work but surely it is harder for the child? I feel really sad that people try and talk me out of it.
It is a defo in our book and of course we will make sure our own children are comfortable about it. It makes me sad that there are so many unwanted children in todays world so why not help them.