MrsStutler
Mom of 3!
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I've had so many people ask me "Was the baby planned?" and I just want to beat them.
With my first it was because we were young (21 and 23) and recently married (2yrs, after 5yrs dating).
With the second it was because my daughter is only 17 months younger than my son.
Now that I'm pregnant with the third people are STILL asking this stupid question. I just want to go crazy on them. Mostly because of the hormones but more because I can't believe anybody would ask such a personal question. I mean, does it matter!? Who really cares?
We struggled very hard with getting pregnant this time and I want to say to anybody who asks that, "Planned? Was it planned? If planned means months and months and months of careful temperature charting, timed intercourse, supplements, special lubricants, prayer, tears and shattered hearts when it didn't happen then YES it was planned."
Uhg. Sorry I just had to get that out of me.
With my first it was because we were young (21 and 23) and recently married (2yrs, after 5yrs dating).
With the second it was because my daughter is only 17 months younger than my son.
Now that I'm pregnant with the third people are STILL asking this stupid question. I just want to go crazy on them. Mostly because of the hormones but more because I can't believe anybody would ask such a personal question. I mean, does it matter!? Who really cares?
We struggled very hard with getting pregnant this time and I want to say to anybody who asks that, "Planned? Was it planned? If planned means months and months and months of careful temperature charting, timed intercourse, supplements, special lubricants, prayer, tears and shattered hearts when it didn't happen then YES it was planned."
Uhg. Sorry I just had to get that out of me.