ao30
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I'm sure most of us have had this question asked. Sometimes from kind friends and family, and other times from people who seem to be personally annoyed with the fact that there are people in this world who would like to conceive a child (I always wonder: what's it to you?)
So I was wondering about your thoughts on adoption. Have you discussed it with your SO? Is it something you don't want to even think about, or is it something you know you'll do in the future? Are you afraid to mention it; does it feel like a "second choice" to you? Would love to hear your thoughts and concerns
Us: We knew we wanted to adopt before we were married; before we even began our TTC journey. And we knew that we wanted to adopt before we were much older. I have four adopted siblings and about a dozen adopted cousins. Adoption has just always been a factor in my life. Of course, we didn't know that we would have difficulties conceiving, so adoption is now becoming a reality quicker than it would have otherwise. I know it's a painful decision for many, but for us it hasn't been simply because we always knew that we wanted to adopt. We're still trying, and aren't giving up, but it looks like our family might grow bigger through adoption sooner than later!
So I was wondering about your thoughts on adoption. Have you discussed it with your SO? Is it something you don't want to even think about, or is it something you know you'll do in the future? Are you afraid to mention it; does it feel like a "second choice" to you? Would love to hear your thoughts and concerns
Us: We knew we wanted to adopt before we were married; before we even began our TTC journey. And we knew that we wanted to adopt before we were much older. I have four adopted siblings and about a dozen adopted cousins. Adoption has just always been a factor in my life. Of course, we didn't know that we would have difficulties conceiving, so adoption is now becoming a reality quicker than it would have otherwise. I know it's a painful decision for many, but for us it hasn't been simply because we always knew that we wanted to adopt. We're still trying, and aren't giving up, but it looks like our family might grow bigger through adoption sooner than later!