why female orgasm can help when TTC (warning -graphic! lol)

[xSTACEx]

Hubby and I try to at the same time.. I hope that's just as good as him going first!

 

[purechaos109]

You know I was wondering the same thing right after I bumped this thread hahahaha! She must have been using the camera as the "tool" lol!

 

[Adelicia]

Hubby and I try to at the same time.. I hope that's just as good as him going first!

I'd go out on a limb and say as good. From my understanding the convulsions actually last quite a while, but obviously at a lower intensity. A quick google suggests that they last 20-60 seconds on average, so the 'Alien sucking' should go on for a while!

The other thing is, if he orgasms first, it means that the swimmers are sat about in the vagina for longer, and due to the acid nature of the vagina this isn't as great for them.

Normally we do it simultaneously... I think I'd find it hard to get there while concentrating on not spilling anyone.

 

[xSTACEx]

The other thing is, if he orgasms first, it means that the swimmers are sat about in the vagina for longer, and due to the acid nature of the vagina this isn't as great for them.

Ohhhh, good thought, Adelicia! That makes me feel like I'm at least doing one thing right! haha This ttc thing isn't as easy as I thought or some people make it seem!

 

[SBB]

I'd say together is ideal! That way as soon as the sperm shoot out they get sucked up by the cervix!
All you ladies who can time your o with OH at very lucky!
X x

 

[xSTACEx]

I'd say together is ideal! That way as soon as the sperm shoot out they get sucked up by the cervix!
All you ladies who can time your o with OH at very lucky!
X x

Mine is sweet enough to hold out and wait til I'm ready if he's ready to o before me. He likes it better that way. That's true love right there! haha

 

[madkitty]

so both having orgasms at the same time would also be great - suck it all up LOL fingers crossed that happened last night woohoo ;-)

 

[prettynpink29]

I wanted to watch the video, but it says its been terminated

 

[GdaneMom4now]

Where did the video gooooo?

 

[SBB]

It's a shame the video has been deleted, this thread is really old though!

Basically the cervix in the video sort of contracts and appears to suck up the sperm it looks like!

X x x

 

[purechaos109]

It kinda looks like a hand sucking it up!

 

[MrsJT]

Everything contradicts everything else doesn't it? If you read the shettles method to try gender selection they say to O before other half for a boy as this helps carry the sperm and that it makes the environment more alkaline, thats what I've read anyway so confusing I'd just like to Ovulate and be able to get pregnant without worrying which positon to use and who O's first

 

[Zianna]

The video is no longer active, wanted to see it

 

[Icklebean]

I came across it ages ago when finding help about TTC. This is why the female orgasm plays a huge role in conceiving just as much as the male orgasm does..
If your OH ejaculates before you hit the big "O" and you get there after he does your cervix will dip into the "pool" and suck it up... it's a bit grim, and a weird thought but hey


Every bit of knowledge helps right

Oh and if you orgasm before he does you may be sucking CM up and pre-cum, CM is acidic, sperm don't like that as much.. so try to orgasm after your OH's

LoL

Theres a youtube link but everytime i try and post it on here it shows the video not the link dont want to cause offence to those who don't wanna see it! LOL :/

I don't know... I think this whole "cervical dipping and sucking" scenario has been pretty much debunked; I discussed that in a thread about a week ago, that had to do with tilted uteruses (uteri? lol) and how doctors used to think this common condition made it harder to get pregnant (for the reason you just mentioned above), but now they no longer believe that.

I do know that I got pregnant with my children very easily, at a young age, before I'd ever experienced an orgasm (I was a late bloomer in some ways, I guess! )

And I do not now orgasm during intercourse; never have.The only orgasms I have are from masturbation or from oral sex. I have them easily... but not from intercourse. Ever.

I do not expect this to be a problem.
I may or may not be able to get pregnant, at my age... but I am completely confident that if I don't, it won't be because of a lack of orgasm during intercourse.

Hmm i dunno, my uterus is normal and my cervix does that lol if you sit still while O-ing you can feel it..
I think it only helps though, loads of women find it hard to O and still get pregnant..
Only when i Orgasmed just after my OH did in the whole 13 cycles of TTC did i conceive though..

What harm can it do to O after he does though.. when you try for ages you'll try anything lol

xx

Tilted uteruses are "normal" as well.
It's a normal and perfectly functional anatomical variation. About one in four women has it.
It's just where your uterus sits at a slightly different angle in your body.
Your cervix is at a slightly different angle as well (an angle from which it is not likely to be able to "dip down" into pooled semen).
Doctors (until about the 1960s) used to believe that a tilted uterus made it harder for a woman to get pregnant, because they thought- as you posted- that pregnancy occurred when the cervix dipped down into pooled sperm in the back of the vaginal vault and sucked it up into the uterus.
Now that has been pretty definitively debunked, and they no longer believe that is how pregnancy occurs.

Yep i know, what i meant is that mine sits upright. I worked on ward 5 (a gyno ward with my mum whos a sexual health and a gyno nurse for a few years so heard about my fair share of uterus's)
The cervix can point against the wall, straight down, or even sort of point upwards.
Female orgasm can help in some peoples cases(not for everyone though) it all depends on where you cervix is and where it hits when you orgasm.
Sperm will sit in the pool if you are on your back. but the cervix wont always orgasm and hit that spot.

But it doesn't mean you'll fall pregnant, it can help though. I mean the odds in a healthy couple doing everything right is only 25% chance a month.

After this long of TTC .. it's worth a try lol

xxx

the nurse said my cervix isnt tilted either way really, is this good or bad? help girls! xxx

 

[Keeda]

That should be good. Girls with tilted or retroverted/retroflexed cervix have been suggested to BD in different positions other than the missionary to conceive. Girls with normal cervix positions just need to do it the "normal" way and then put a pillow under your butt to keep the spermies in.

 

[Icklebean]

thanks chick this helped