why is my body playing tricks on me

[babytots]

i keep getting flutters in my stomach just like how jessica moved and everytime it happens it upsets me further. why is my body doing this to me! they feel so real and makes me think what if they got it wrong.

but after 2 scans both confirming no heartbeat i know they havent got it wrong. i knew something was wrong a couple of weeks ago when her movement slowed right down but never did i think this would happen and never did i think my body could be as cruel as to make me think my baby girl is kicking when shes not. i guess all the movements in the past week or so have just been a cruel trick. x

 

[jo_79]

Im so sorry for your loss.

I dont think i can help but i had the same thing when i found out my baby had died @ 29 weeks. I was positive they had got it wrong at the hospital - they too found no hb. Im not sure what the feeling is though. Its very cruel of our bodies to mislead us like that.

Massive to you x

 

[Snowball]

The same thing happened to me when Beau was found to have no hb. 2 people had checked so I knew they couldn't be wrong. I'm still thinking of you and little Jessica loads

 

[DiddyDons]

I am so sorry sweetie Its not fair at all!

Donna xxx

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[Aidedhoney]

Im so sorry, i think you go into denial, when i lost my twins at 16wks part of me thought that they just might be born alive, crazy really but they were my babies and i didnt want reality to kick in. I didnt want to face it.

So sorry for your loss xxxxx

 

[LeaArr]

I'm sorry your body is being cruel to you. I have the same flutterings and I keep thinking to myself, what if it all didn't really happen? It's so hard to heal when our bodies do this.

 

[babytots]

thanks everyone glad its not just me experiencing this i thought i was going crazy.

i guess part of me is still in denial i know shes gone but part of me thinks but she cant be. x

 

[Widger]

I'm really sorry you are going through this. It is so upsetting even without your body playing tricks on you xx

 

[jacky24]

It is totally normal... even after CJ was born via c-section... I Could some days still feel fluttering and movement even an abrubt kick... In my case it was my womb contracting back... But there is nothing wrong with you having those feelings... We all in the end wish it is all just one horrible dream....

Lots of

 

[v2007]

I also had this when Taylor died, i didnt know she had died, i was having BH which were making her move from side to side.

Even when i delivered her, i honestly thought they had it wrong.



V xxx